Mine doesn't change. Still the same old him. But ALL of my friends said that their husbands changed in a good way.
2006-10-27 02:04:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm more helpful around the house. I kinda feel like everything is happening to her, but I'm just staying the same. It's hard to relate I guess. Don't worry, once the baby comes his daddy instincts will kick right in. It's just hard for guys because while you women are going through all these changes, nothing is changing for us - we don't get fat, cranky, cravings, nothing. Try to see it that way. Name your son Ryan.
2006-10-27 02:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men have the sama thoughts on pg, some get scared,some don't care at all, some think is normal and some change in a good way. Mine has, he's more understanding and nicer, and spoils me a lot, he's thrilled about my pg. But if yours isn't like that at all it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you or his baby,maybe he's just having a hard time getting used to it, or he's just scared about this little angel that will be born soon and that will bring a great change into your lives. Try to talk to him, find out how he's feeling....he'll come around once the baby is born, I'm sure.
2006-10-27 09:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband changed after the baby, he was happy when people asked about the baby and got even more excitied when the baby turned out to be a boy. My husband has changed in such a way I never thought would be. we don't have friends out of work life, but that's good enough for him, he just can't wait to come home and play with our two small kids. Your husband probably doesn't understand until something is infront of him, the baby will be a kick in the face once his or she arrives.
2006-10-27 09:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is different. My guy has gotten sweeter and more helpful...I'm beginning to wonder who will make a better mommy...lol.
But my ex husband, has knocked up his girl friend and hasn't even bothered to go to the doctors with her or anything. Same ol A$$hole. He didn't want me any more because I couldn't give him children. And now that he's got a girl pregnant (two months after our divorced was finally finalized), he hasn't bothered to take on any interest in her well being or that of the little person he has helped create. Typical BS with him. Thank God, I was never able to get pregnant with him! I'm happy for them but can't help but feel bad (worrisome) for her...she doesn't even know what she's got herself into. He says the right thing, meaning well...but very seldom follows through with actions. Hopefully it will all work out well for them.
And yes, I'm now pregnant. One month after my divorce finally became finalized my boyfriend and I conceived. He didn't want children, and I had told him that was ok, because the doctors had told me I couldn't have children anyway. But now that I'm pregnant (I gave him the option to walk away, no fault) he tends to be excited and really looking forward to meeting his little girl.
2006-10-27 09:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the baby is strongly desired by the man, he turns extra nice to his wife during pregnancy, in an effort to ensure safe conception and delivery.
Some women get more beautiful during pregnancy. Such women attract more attention and love from their husbands during pregnancy.
True love makes some husbands feel more for their wives during pregnancy, as they see their wives as passing through a hard and stressful time. The extra love they show during pregnancy is to lighten their wives' emotional and physical burdens.
On the contrary, if the husband does not value or want the pregnancy, or the wife gets uglier and more irritating, or love for her is not adequate, women in pregnancy may suffer undue neglect from the husband.
2006-10-27 10:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend actually changed in the negative, I realize now that he was just scared as our son was a "surprise", even after our son was born he wasn't as involved as I had wanted him to be, I thought the same way as you do, I always thought that he should be so excited an awesome and make big changes, always taking care of me, but it simply wasn't the case.He's much better now, he's an awesome father, it just took him some time to come around.
2006-10-27 09:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by LittleRaysMama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy.. My husband is the same also and he does not realize how hard it is too be pregnant. He does not acknowledge that I have to take care of all the children. I have 3 children and I am pregnant with our 4th child.
He keeps telling me that I am lucky because I get to stay at home and relax, while he goes to work.
I was so pissed off, I told him that I have too clean, do laundry, cook dinner, wash dishes before and after every meal,do homework with my children, take their shower etc.. The list goes on and on. All he has to do is take care of himself and goto work and come home and his supper is waiting for him. I have to take care of him too. All he has to do is pay the pills... This is what gets me mad...
2006-10-27 09:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was w/ the 1st, but with my 2nd & now 3rd he his just the same. Except if I complain of morning sickness his answer is now, you knew, so don't complain to mean. No hes not nicer. But when I am in labor of yeah he is like prince charming for the whole 7 hours!
2006-10-27 09:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother in law said her hubby (my father in law) was sooooo nice and considerate during all of her pregnancies. My mom said the same about my dad. Both of them love their kids alot.
I think it depends on the guy you've decided to mate with!!!
2006-10-27 09:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby has changed this time, but thats because I've had a lot of miscarriages and he really really doesnt want it to happen again
2006-10-27 09:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by Claire O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋