2006-10-27 02:02:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most of my friends are male and I don't have sex with them.
2006-10-27 02:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe on the males part yes, there is something sexual underneath because this is just the way men are. Where as a woman can have male friends and the thought never crosses her mind. I have many male friends and I have never had sex with any of them, but I do know if I gave them the go ahead signal each and every one of them (excluding my gay friends) would jump on it. My answer then is women can have male friends without something sexual underneath, but I doubt very much that men can have women friends without the thought crossing their minds at least once.
2006-10-27 09:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by coolnightairiscurious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donjt see why not, ok so as some people have already said the odds are pretty high that the male friend is going to wonder what she is like in bed but theres a difference between thinking it and actually acting on it isnt there? so long as he doesnt turn into some sort of pervy stalker then the odd lapse of concentration shouldnt matter should it?if youre both good friends then thats what counts right? unless, ofcourse, you want something more...
2006-10-27 09:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Andy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon there will always be a sexual side to a male and female relationship unless one of them is gay.
Even if nothing happens and both people don't want something to happen, surely one of them will fantasise about the other at some point, just for kicks.
2006-10-27 09:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very interesting question. Depends on the situation, I think. Is any of them married? What if you are married and you want to be friends with a member of the opposite sex? Can you? Should your spouse accept it? Great question. I would love to see some mature responses. Seems like most of the answers are from young kids just trying to rack up points.
2006-10-27 09:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe men and women are very cappable of being just friends! I know this first hand, because almost all my friends as I was growing up and to this day are men! I get along better with men, There not always trying to compete with you, and,well at least the men I know,aren't trying to stab you in the back,or being two faced or jealous,or trying to take your man away from you, cause they are men!! Plus, there really fun to be around,and if you have respect for yourself they respect you to the "T". Thery always got your back,and there really good listners and plus there just totally cool to hang around with!! Also,I feel alot safer if I'm going out somewhere being with my guy friends then I would going out with female friends,who usually don't have your back. I guess,growing up with my brother,and being around him and his friends and watching them ride dirt bikes and playing football and getting beat up by my brother(R.I.P Peter C. Novak) (I miss you!) And just being a tomboy(but still a women in every way)Gives me this answer, which,I am confident of in every way!! Men are the best kind of friends to have in life!
2006-10-27 09:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyes1essd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a question always remains - but that does't mean it has to be answered or that you want to either!
My best friend is a man, we went there when we first met, have never needed to since and are now very close - as friends. But my problem is I have some difficulty keeping things in perspective, and occassionally I find myself wondering "what if" - if we're so good as friends then why do I have to struggle to find somebody else who matches up?
2006-10-27 09:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Contrary Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the sexual bits are underneath !
2006-10-27 09:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to be friends, but there does always seem to be a sexual element underneath.
2006-10-27 09:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible. I used to live with a man and of course we had sex. We split up and now are the very best of friends, and I think it should have always have been that way. We laugh and joke about it now. He's my BEST friend.
2006-10-27 10:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Nana Susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's possible. I have tried that on several occasions but it usually ends up with us in bed. Although we tell each other that we are just friends with benefits, it still effects one differently when the other one has a new b/f or gf.
2006-10-27 09:07:46 · answer #11 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋