Relationship.....?

Question

My partner and I have been going out 16 months and we stopped having sex for our 1 year aniversary till we are married,
I talk about marriage to him all the time and i really look farward and him well he just looks at every day and not to the future . He always seems grumpy except for when i am cooking for him..... Why is this so????

Answer 1

Hmmm...typically people who enjoy physical intimacy with their mate will get grumpy when this activity no longer exist in their relationship. Perhaps you two should discuss this further and try to compromise on what to do while you wait for marriage. Determine if he agreed to do so in order to please you, though it is entirely against his will. Sometimes our mate will do these things because they THINK it is something that is right, but goes against the "grain" for them.

Often, the man does not have the anticipation of excitement towards nuptials as we do, especially if they are not in the immediate future. My husband was very excited because he knew he didn't have too long to wait. It was a long time, but at least it was within the year. :)

I am sure that if you and your partner talk about the situation, you can come to an agreeable solution that will work for both of you. The best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Because you cut him off. Don't care what they say, he is dying for it. You should have never let him go there in the beginning, it is like taking candy from a baby. Food is a filler. It may get better, but he may always be grumpy when he is not getting his way. Think hard about this one.

Answer 3

Why did you decide not to have sex anymore? The only way to find out why he is grumpy is to ask him why. Communication is very important in a relationship and I think you and your partner need to talk.

Answer 4

i guess he can tell you better...its time for you guys to sit down n chat up.let him know your feelings n get to know his too,so that you'll can work on it together,good luck!!