I asked a good friend (Of the opposite sex) who I thought I trusted what they were doing this weekend. We have shared much over the past two years. They replied nothing. I know for a fact they are going away and entertaining friends visiting from America. I sent a text hinting I knew they were not being truthful and received a message back saying they had no idea what I was talking about.
Also to text no more as they would not reply. Do I ignore and hope they know I know.....or do I sent an e mail saying hope they enjoy their weekend in...........with ......... doing nothing?? Each question I have been asked by this person I have answered honestly.....and now kick myself for doing so.....I have suspected their untruthfullness for a while now. Sorry hope this makes sense but it hurts.
2006-10-27 01:54:49 · 16 answers · asked by evergreen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First off--- are you sure you know for a fact they are doing something?? Make sure of that 110% first. Then, if it's true, forget these people as your friends, and get a little self respect!! The texted you back saying not to text them any more? They pretty clearly dont want to hang out with you. Don't let them feel sorry for you for having nothing to do. Do something else and dont call/text them again until they contact you. Life doesn't need "friends" like that.
2006-10-27 02:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by love this site! 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from him find a different friend. I know sometimes I get irritated when my friend calls me and asks "who's there?" In my opinion it is none of her business. She will ask me questions about my husband and his friends and sometimes I jsut could care less to tell her. Almost like she is just being too nosy! I know I shouldn't get irritated but there are days I honestly feel that it is none of her buisness! And if I wanted her to know well then I would have told her. It doesn't matter if your friend knows or not that you know! Maybe he is afraid that you would invite yourself, maybe planes have changed that you don't know about I just think that you should have your own life and let him live his... This will not make your friendship stronger but it may make it weaker. What is with the text? Just let it go.... Find some maturity and other things to do. I know you are hurt and I am not trying to hurt you more by the things I've wrote but really you are not married to him and he doesn't have a master! I doesn't mean he is not trust worthy or that he is lieing! it means he needs some space and for you to not ask soo many questions...
2006-10-27 02:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mary it sounds like you have self esteem and fear of abandonment issues because if you didn't, you would not be so desperate to be included in what your friends are doing. I had friends like that and you know what I did, I found something else to do either alone or with my other friends. Maybe your friends stay away because they don't like how clingy you are. I think if you take the time to love yourself and be happy regardless if friends are there or not, you will be a much happier person. Stop texting them because you are only turning them off even more because they might think that you are really overreacting or maybe they are really not doing anything this weekend. Who knows? Was your source that reliable that they are really doing something on the weekend?
2006-10-27 02:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u a friend that is always texting or phone just one person all the time. if so then you are annoying and even good friends need space to get on with there lives. You say you knew that they are entertaining so why are you asking what are they doing, leave them alone. Go find something to do your self before this friend give you the boot permanently.
2006-10-27 02:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF they are just a good friend then i wouldnt let it bother you .. if however you have stronger feelings for them and u suspect they dont feel the same way i would try and take the relationship back to friendship
But if someone txt me and asked me not to txt them as they wouldnt txt me back then sorry but i wouldnt bother txting them again ... sounds to me like they use u when they have nothing else better to do
sorry xx
2006-10-27 02:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by kirsty d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you stated this was a "good" friend, but let me ask you would a good friend be dishonest to you? How do you know for sure they are going away this weekend? You know what they say about assuming. They also specifically asked you not to text them anymore....ouch! I would try to find friends who treat me with respect and wants me to text them.
2006-10-27 02:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really hurt......
Thing is, these people cannot be your friend or they would have invited you or at least said what they were doing! Don't embarass yourself any more hun, just do your own thing this weekend....
When these friends do contact you just be dead 'cool' with them....when they ask, tell them how you feel about what happened.
Hope this helps luv, but don't let people play with your emotions.
2006-10-27 01:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by EMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend cant or doesnt want you there for various reasons and they dont want to hurt your feelings by tellling you their plans in case you are offended.
Really - you sound like a bit possessive - so I think the best thing you can do is leave it - you'll end up embarrassing yourself in the long run - make plans with other friends. xx
2006-10-27 02:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend probably just wants a bit of time with other friends , i have a few friends but though they get on with me they dont get on with eachother. your friend has probably told you not to text again as youve made out they are a liar and your seeming obsessive . they will be in touch x
2006-10-27 03:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by LISA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it's none of your business what your friend is doing and if he doesn't want to tell you, leave him alone.
2006-10-27 02:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by IC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋