hi i am 20 years old student learning at some college now i am working in one company in my break .i faced with some situation that i dont really imagined the thing is my boss keeps telling me that he likes me even loved me but it got no solution he is married,old,different in realligion .but me i am not feeling the same way how he feels and i dont want to give him no chance because it got no sollution what should my answer be when i tell him i am not the wrigt person he will tell me that he just want to have conversation that's it what the best formal answer to tell to a boss.
2006-10-27 01:53:48 · 14 answers · asked by susu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they guy is married, you remind him and tell him to quit being a sleazy bag of shhh
what is it with you girls these days, is this really a dilemma? ever said, "hell no" before?
Why do you feel that you have the rooted commitment to be gentle, this guy is practically molesting you in some dillusion that he's living in...
i'd take him down to china town for sexual harrassment. But, thats the difference between you and me...
2006-10-27 01:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boss that he must not think of you that way. If he does not stop then you may have to change jobs.
You should seek advice from an advocate, or a union representative, so you don't lose your job. What our boss is doing is wrong and he should know better. It is called harassment, and most places it is illegal.
You do not have to put up with this. Get support from your friends and family, and if you do not have them nearby, then talk to one of your college counsellors. They will give you advice and the contacts for the union people. They can help you make the right decision and support you emotionally so you do not feel alone.
2006-10-27 09:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pierre D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SuSu, he is probably reacting to your overwhelming sense of care for all humans. These days people, especially in the work force are so ugly toward one another. He also, may be taking your kindness for a weakness, hoping that he would find a fancy free mistress in you. I feel sorry for him and you. He's, out of ignorance, going to loose a beneficial employee and perhaps, but hopefully not, tarnish your future endeavor, robbing us all
of something a work place needs so very much these days, compassion. Already you have a harassment problem. At the time of your confrontation, when you lay down the law, you may want to reassure him this is also the law of the land, included in
the Labor laws of most U.S. states. Good luck.
God bless us all...
2006-10-27 09:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the boss. I think the best answer to a boss in your situation is " Thank You, but you ARE married" or you can always yell him that you are with someone(even if you aren't).
2006-10-27 08:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are flattered but not interested in him. If he continues than that is considered sexual harassment. You don't need to be rude...but certainly make it clear you are not interested in him in sexually or for friendship.
Your Boss is trying to take advantage of your innocence and niceness. He knows what he is doing is wrong. Point that out to him if he persists.
2006-10-27 08:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think he's a nice guy and all, but you two just aren't right for each other. And if I were you, I'd start looking for a different job.
2006-10-27 08:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him again your not the right one for him if he does not get it then i would find another job he should be like that towards u at all and that is considered sexuall harassrement u know right so but u do want u want but iwould put upthat
2006-10-27 08:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by kandie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your boss. that's sexual harrassment in the workplace. i would say something about it to a bigger person. you can tell him your not interested and what hes doing is sexual harrassment, but he might get mad and find some way to fire you. tell his boss is what i would do. thats not something to just let someone get by with.
2006-10-27 08:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a difficult position. Look for another job.
2006-10-27 09:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit the job, he wants to get intimate!!! Pig.
2006-10-27 08:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋