How can i let someone who i'm not allowed to talk to any more know that they are still a special person, a VERY speacial person to me and that for the last four months always been part of my mind? i want this person to know that they are a beautiful, confident person really, even if i can't be there to help and support, i need them to realise that i'm still trying to help as best i can, and i hope that they aren't angry with me for how things turned out. I hope they are still going on with what we talked about, and would love to know how they are getting on with it.
But how am i ever to find the answer to any of this?
Please . . . i need your help!!!
2006-10-27 01:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've had a recent situation in my life that ended badly and has caused alot of pain and anger for everyone involved. Circumstances have a way of controlling everything, and there isn't always anything that can be done about it. But that person was very special to me, and still is. But he's chosen to keep silent and to let me think he never cared. I'd kill to hear him say what you've typed here and to know that it wasn't all just a lie. In my opinion, if this is how you really feel, then find a way to let that person know, email, letter,... anything you can think of, cause silence can be more painful than anything.
2006-10-27 01:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Writing them a letter and praying help. I've learned as getting older that there are things you don't have control over and beyond your reach, but with a good prayer, that helps keeping your mind peaceful (if letters can't be sent.) Also if that is a person who really know you of who you are, you shouldn't have to worry about whether they will misunderstand your intention. They should already realize you mean good.
2006-10-27 01:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we are assuming you picked up on a conversation of the internet and just talked to this person, and something went sour?? we have had it happen too hy hons gay boyfriends daveey and stevie, we too, have had conversations, via the internet, and thought we wwere conecting(not necesarily gay oriented isuueses okay) sometimes if you, are getting a god conversation goiing, something will go wrong in the persons mind-- the least little thing and poof!! we dont undrrstand it either but hey thats life- we habve great conversations-- and thenGONE!!
2006-10-27 01:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can. Wishing someone well is often enough. Sending
out those good vibes just has to be a good thing. Let it go at that and
move on with your life. There might be a time when you will be able to
meet again. It is time to stop dwelling on it.
2006-10-27 01:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by sunnymommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your talking in circles and were sopose to read between the lines,DID you have a afair?Is these messages about exlover?Well,if it is and you really care about that person,Then stay out of their lifes and let them find somebody thats gona love just them!Hollywood
2006-10-27 01:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you cant TALK to them - can you email them - or put it in a letter? Or ask a mutual friend to tell them? It sounds like a bizarre situation - but I hope you find a way! xx
2006-10-27 01:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just send a txt/message/email/note
I fell out with my brother a while back and hes not speaking to me anymore.
Hes also having a really rough time at the moment, so i just txt him saying
" i know your not talking to me and you probably dont care, but i just want you to know that i still love you"
I felt much better for it and hopefully he doesnt feel so alone
2006-10-27 01:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try sending something like a teddy through the post to them. One of those tatty teddies with the blue patches are nice and usually have messages on them. You could send one with 'thinking of you' on it. If s/he does want to talk to you after that, they will. I wish you luck, love and happiness. x
2006-10-27 01:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Emma W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can you afford a spot on the CNN ticker tape......if not, I would
suggest a mental telepathy antenna for the person for Christmas!
2006-10-27 01:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
AH YOU SOUND SO SWEET.YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON AND SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO SPEAK TO WHO EVER YOU WANT,IF YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT THIS PERSON DONT CUT THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE YOU WILL ONLY LIVE TO REGRET IT LOVE GOOD LUCK
2006-10-27 01:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by SHAUNA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋