hey..., i've noticed that my friend is only using me..., i think he only approaches me when he needs me..., and then..., if i'm the one who's asking for a favor he's always saying no..., also..., he does not appreciate all the things that i do for him..., but i've heard that he ain't like that in his other friends..., what will i do...?
2006-10-27 01:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore him for i week don't talk to him then see what will happend.....
2006-10-27 01:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by BAZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation with a lot of people. They ask ask ask and want want want and take take take. I feel like I am going to explode. I feel like I never have time for me. In a way it is flattering because maybe they look at me as strong with no problems. But I feel used like you also.
Someone told me that some people are meant to help and others are meant to take. But where is the line drawn from being used and being a friend.
If your friend helps others and not you maybe he feels that you do not need help or he is like you said A USER!
But if he makes you feel crappy than you must feel that way for a reason.
2006-10-27 01:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by tramany77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you hear he 'aint like that to his other friends'? Remember gossip can spoil friendship. Why not talk to him about what you've noticed - PLEASE do not use accusatory words. If he acknowledges his faults then try to work things out if not then let go. He's not a true friend but play your path as a good friend - Tell him his fault maybe he'll be willing to change. That's the way of true friendship
2006-10-27 01:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him look i do all this stuff for you and you don't appreciate it. so i think if you don't start getting with the program and being a real friend. then i think i have to being your friend. because you do have feeling too. you don't need friends like that either. it's kind of wasting you time for doing all that stuff for him and then he doesn't appreciate it. so in my opinion i think i would move on and find real friends. because he not a good person. good luck
2006-10-27 01:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember how he is or your perception of him anyway. And make sure that you just accept him for how he is and only deal with him when you want too. No use in burning a relationship for nothing even if it is not one of your better ones. Just spend time with other friends.
2006-10-27 01:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him you don wanna be his friend...or you could do him like he duz you... when he ask you a question or a favor tell him no.... or kick him to the curb and later on he will relize he jus lost a really good friend
2006-10-27 01:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by princess_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to **** off you dont need him.Your not his back up.Make new friends and ones that will listen to you and not use you.He isnt a true friend.
2006-10-27 01:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by ms.biatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know he using u stop being his friend. i wouldn't even tell him i would just stop answering his calls and ignore the hell out him, he will get the picture.
2006-10-27 04:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by krazyrenee91606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋