i've known this guy for 5 years and i really like him. he makes me feel free when i'm around him. the only problem is he doesn't see the whole situation where i like him. someone please HELP!
2006-10-27 01:27:17 · 9 answers · asked by emi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Life is short, If your actions aren't opening his eyes, tell him how you feel. If he feels the same, great, if he doesn't, great, you move on.
2006-10-27 01:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with him and tell him exactly how you feel - although it sounds like he enjoys your friendship and wants to keep it there. Most guys don't hesitate to take the relationship to the next level if they are interested in more then friendship, but he could be shy and I'm sure he doesn't want to do anything to jeopardize the friendship. Good luck!
2006-10-27 08:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the question you just asked is a very good question. I think it depends on who you ask. Some might see it one way while others might see it the other way. If i had to answer, i would say that you need to put out the vibe that you are attracted. Try making subtle gesutres to indicate that, or ask him out for coffee or something.
Good luck
2006-10-27 08:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys need you to totally spell it out for them. They have a hard time seeing the big picture. You may have to tell him or be a little more obvious. Good luck...
2006-10-27 08:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by fdk30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better make the move before its to late. me and my best friend did that pass and miss with each other. he never told me how he feels, because i always have a boyfriend. now he has a girlfriend and they plan on marriage. we both talked about it now and we both wish it would have gotten out sooner. but i believe everything happens for a reason.
2006-10-27 08:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by amanda n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you verbally expressed your feeling about him to him, and have you asked what feelings he has towards you? If so, no matter what he has said, it' time for you to move on.
Life is too short to not have a true relationship.
2006-10-27 08:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard.. but u have to tell everything about ur feelings to him... if u r shy.. than u can write a letter 4 him...
2006-10-27 09:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Justina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel when you're with him and tell him that you like to be with him if he still doesn't see it then tell him that you like him. it'll probably blow his mind. he should be so lucky as to have someone who likes him let him know.
2006-10-27 08:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a man and a man dont do hints you have to be blunt cause thats all men know
2006-10-27 08:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Avis S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋