Boyfriend is unemployed but supportive
2006-10-27 00:31:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to either move in with your family,boyfriend, or call the state you live in and ask how you go about applying for section 8, food stamps, and medical assistance. Tell them your story and tell them you really need to find out as you are so far along, and are homeless. There are places like your local church that can give you food and clotheing, and stuff for the baby, or a food shelf. call and talk to your local state authorities about those programs. Have your boyfriend get a job even if it's at mcdonalds to help support the baby. If you aren't too far along you could go and do some work too. And if you and your boyfriend can't support or take care of the baby i'd consider adoption. Give your baby the one thing you can't and that's a good home where someone can afford to. Unless you guys can get jobs and beable to support it.
2006-10-27 00:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by danielle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to worry, im 20yrs old, unmarried and having 2nd baby soon. Lucky for me though im in australia so theres alot of support. As long as your boyfriend stands by you and if he can get a job im sure you'll be ok :) just think positive
2006-10-27 07:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by synnie69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a serious look at your life. If you are living on the street and don't have a job how are you going to support a baby? Please if what you are telling us is true, be an adult and find a solid home for that baby. There are a lot of people out there that can't have children. Try family, see if they can help. If that is a no go then put the baby up for adoption.
2006-10-27 10:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by cargrl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very carefully! Shame on you if this story is fake! Shame on me for not believing, if it's real! My dear, even though your boyfriend is being supportive, you are going to need a lot of help, especially when the baby arrives! Any family or friends that can help?
2006-10-27 07:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl its going to be hard but you need to get on him about a job and a place for you guys if he wants to keep you guys safe and healthy and if he loves you both then he will do anything for you guys i have been on the streets before and its not a very safe place for a baby and your going to need health care for the baby also but i just hope that he understands and trys to support you and that you guys are safe i hope that eveything gets better for you. just remember to keep your head up
2006-10-27 07:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by joeya_anthonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a youthgroup that will help you. Get some shelter from a christian aid group or something, by the grace of god you will be okay.
God Bless
2006-10-27 08:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Trying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not 20 but when i was pregnant i got put out of my house and was living place to place at least ur boy friend is supportive because mines rolled out when i 3months
2006-10-27 08:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by kiara n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol mum 04 im with you there as im in oz aswell (SA).... yes being a youngmum can be hard. BUT like th others said love support is all you need. Yeah money aswell. i always put our kids first before us!
2006-10-27 07:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by tamira_jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROFL! plz consider adoption when you have this child, could you really imagine bringing someone in this earth to nothin but hardship. you are in a terrible situation. Think about the baby plz
2006-10-27 07:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by 1 luvly LEO 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
come to australia...they give us $4000 for having a baby and then on top of that you get money every week to support you, and then if thats not enough, in september every year we ge a $600 per child tax free bonus.....gotta love jonny howard for something
2006-10-27 07:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋