2006-10-27 00:21:23 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is your partner male or female?
2006-10-27 00:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi there :)
Congratulations on your wedding 'woohoo.... when i read your post i thought wow ~ how special to know that you're partner is so into you that it happens in lightning speed ~
So you dont want to begin giving your partner a complex so this needs to be done with care and perfect planning~
Communication is the key to all happy relationships,communication can be done in experiential ways also ~
So may be instead of saying i am not enjoying sex and making your partner feel disempowered~ Why dont you have some adventures together where you have control one day and your partner the next when it comes to love making ~ I think you should have more success this way than putting out the spark ~ instead burn the flame ~ Good luck and there are many available resources to assist you and of course your imagination ~
Bye for now ~j~~j~
2006-10-27 00:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Based on your description of the problem I suspect that you already know the answer. Focusing on premature ejaculation as the source of the problem would be avoiding the main issue -- namely the structure of your marital and family life. Your body is telling you that your lifestyle is not conducive to developing a rich and beautiful marital and family life. In your case, premature ejaculation may be the wake up call that you need to reconsider your priorities.
I'm quite certain that you're not looking for quick solutions and techniques in order to prolong sexual activity
If you have no energy, why would you think you could have a fulfilling sexual life? Creating sexual intimacy takes time and commitment -- two things that your current lifestyle does not allow.
I leave you with a question. Are you prepared to make the changes in your life that will enable you to create a loving relationship with your partner? If the answer is no, then don't be upset with yourself for ejaculating prematurely; it's a logical outcome of the life that you've established for yourself.
Good luck,
2006-10-29 23:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should talk to him about this...i would hope in a new marriage, that your close enough you can talk to him about this, or if this was an arranged married as in some countries that you do not know him so well?
either way talk to him, there are books, sites online that can help both of you too enjoy the sexual experience a little long, he should be, taking time to make sure your enjoying sex as much as him, but first you have to talk to him, to let him know this is a problem, then find the solution.
2006-10-27 00:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by donttalkjustplay05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens in the first week of marriage. Don't rush into it. Have an elaborate fore play. Woman on top position would prolong intercourse. Besides that tell ur partner to wear condom. It can have dual benefits. A peg of whisky does wonders sometimes. Have a nice time.
2006-10-27 00:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bharat Patel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. I think you are a girl right. Tell him your problem. It is very important to talk about and be open about such issues or later they also become reasons for fights in couples and later lead to divorse.
If you are not satisfied tell him you are not. Tell him what all turns u on and what does not. If he really loves you he will understand and try to work it out with you. I suggest you guys spend an entire day trying to experiment with each other what one likes or dislikes. It will be fun and at the same time you both will become more comfortable with each other.
2006-10-27 00:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him in a cool conversation. Let him not think about it before hand. To start with, you should feel excited before hand and get into the act straightaway so that in the process of foreplay, he gets excited and is evaporated fast.
2006-10-27 02:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him hold off until you O(orgasm) then let him O... I think it is nice when a man allows a woman to orgasm first because it shows he cares about the woman too and nt just his own selfish want. I hope this is in the least helpful. Good Luck
2006-10-28 12:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don's be get frustrated after first efforts, try for second after some relaxation duration it may encourage yr partner
2006-10-27 22:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by kamal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is facing a small problem of over excitement. it is not a problem its normal for both men and women who are having first time experience...it will better up with time say max a month once he starts feeling comfortable with you he will be fine.
2006-10-27 10:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by M0778 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engage him in lot of foreplay. Tell him politely about your feelings. He should understand. Suggest some holidaying away from the worries of daily routines.
2006-10-27 00:35:46 · answer #11 · answered by Devidayal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋