there her words not mine she works in mental health he works at sleeping most of the day i the lodger tend to do as much as i can for her as she needs help its not hard for me to give a little back what should she do" nosex with the lodger "answers as we are friends .
2006-10-26 23:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by Ricky S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes but honey , he is her husband and if she comes to her senses and kicks arsehole husband to the kerb that is her prerogative-you just carry on being a top mate and lodger of the year x
2006-10-27 00:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write the situation down as a Script for the next Royal family season? Seriously just continue being a friend. Don't tell her what to do and don't give advice. Just be there. Assist with what you feel comfortable with and avoid becoming another party in the problem. I really suggest it is just too dangerous for you to step in and start trying to change things. If shes unhappy she needs to make up her own mind and then act, your friendship is ideal for assisting her.
2006-10-27 07:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why encouraging the son to help his "mum" Or try being more obvious with your "help" may give her husband the push he needs to sort out his laziness bit of jealousy could do wonders.
2006-10-27 06:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Wim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Richard 1 is totally right, enjoy the other bit.
2006-10-27 06:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her relationship and you cant interfere with it .. if she is unhappy then only she can change that
Just be glad that your helping out and help her as much as you possibly can
2006-10-27 06:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by kirsty d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your friend she deserves better and she would be better off with out him, you must tell her tho that what ever happens you will be there for her to guide her through and stick by her. xx
2006-10-27 08:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with the husband?
You are obviosuly not friends with him.
2006-10-27 06:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rich T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋