i have split up from my parnter for a few months now. its getting sligfhtly easier. we had a hard time the l;ast few months of our relationships and were both acting out of character. i think that i acted a bit pyscho abnd that could have made him run away further.
the nite we ended he sed he loves me and hops we meet up few years down the line when the 'timings right'. hes a mature , usually genuine man, but i wnat some opibnions? dou think he ended it on good equal terms just so i dont go crazy or contact him? can he stop loving me just because i acted wierd and yelled at him thta one night? can exex reunite in few years. he said it not me.
2006-10-26 23:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
who said its going back and ,making same mistake? its gettign the timing right then learning from them. not going back its moving forward progression just atdifferent time
2006-10-26 23:49:46 · update #1
amanda g response very confusing, anyone clarify lol. people stop loving for reasons- then they didnt love in the first place! how can u forget someone u love and move on.
2006-10-27 02:56:29 · update #2
Yes, they can and sometimes it does work out, but you have to deal with whatever caused the break-up, in the first place. You both probably need some time apart, need to deal with your issues, mature and then see if you still want the relationship.
2006-10-26 23:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal story is; Married for 24years,he cheated,but I forgave him to a certain degree,but we did end up divorcing.I felt that perhaps we could keep in contact for the children's sake and I never said a bad thing about him to them.He on the other hand could not except the split and made my and the children's lives a misery.I would like to be in contact with him,but he is very bitter.We have both now remarried and as far as I know he is happy with his new partner,but I think his guilt at what he did to us has clouded his vision and he will have nothing to do with me or the children who are of course grown up`s themselves now.All this of course is irrelevant to your situation,but I thought a different perspective might help.The TIMING being right may never happen for you,because people move on and what they say at the time of a break up,is not necessarily what will happen in the future.The hard time you talked about,cannot always be forgotten by one or the other of the partners.He may love you still,the only way to find out is to contact him,but you have to ask yourself if you still love him and if you can get over the problems you had before.People stop loving other people for lots of reasons,just make sure you know what those reasons are.Be aware that sometimes men say things just to let you down easily.Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2006-10-27 08:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by AMANDA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sometimes ex's reunite ... when the time is right when the problems that were causing the breakdown of the relationship are no longer there .. Take time to evaluate exactly what u believed the problem was .. try and work through this and wait for him to contact you
good luck xx
2006-10-27 06:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by kirsty d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yer there can b a happy ending. But let fate take its course. It's probably best to move on but then I don't know all the details. Maybe meet up with him as a friend and just see what happens.
2006-10-27 07:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be..
If you are meant to be together it will happen. Stop winding yourself up. May be he justs needs a break. If he wants to see you he will contact you.
It is hard but you don't want to ruin things for the future by chasing him..
Christmas is coming up.. send him a card or text message & see what happens..
That way you are making contact with him but you are nit put any pressure on him by making him think you are stalking him!!
Good luck...
2006-10-27 06:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister-in -law was jilted by her fiance in a cowardly way a month before the wedding, he did the right thing, just the wrong way. they got back together a few years later having both been involved with other people along the way and are now happily married!
2006-10-27 06:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i have a few for ya...
my ex husband and i have been divorced for 5 years and are really good friends now
my sister divorced her husband 3 years ago, they were very mean to each other, and just about 6 months ago they got back together, remarried and are a loving couple again.
so yes it can work if you both want it to and if nothing else you can atleast be friends.
2006-10-27 08:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope it does work out as Im thinking of getting back with one of my exs fingers cross!
2006-10-27 07:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never, and why go back and make the same mistake(s) with the same person again, either stay together and work it out , or go your own seperate ways forever and never look back, but do not repeart same mistakes, learn from them.
2006-10-27 06:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by grim_reaper_69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe that ifs its meant to be then it will OK so u went a bit weird for a while who doesn't but you need to ask yourself why and trust in fate
2006-10-27 07:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by madcrazycow1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋