2006-10-26 23:36:18 · 19 answers · asked by LuckyO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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Poor lucky, that made me feel sad for you
2006-10-26 23:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. I feel the same way and most of the time I go into a depression. Right now I can n ot handle the holiday that are on the way. I would like to vanish right now to avoid it all together, but I know thats not prossible. So I just stay away from all and stay alone. Its lonely but at least I do not bring others down with my emotions. You are the first person I have ever confess this to. I hope I answered your question
2006-10-27 06:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by a m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate Christmas. The expectations not met. The cost of what you can afford to do. The higher utility bills. The cut in the overtime. The squeeze from the creditors. The time you spend doing it. Running around like a nut last minute. Trying to make a "Holiday" for the kids. Then waiting for the older ones to show up.
There has been a couple nice Christmas's but they were years apart.
2006-10-27 06:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be the only one to be alone: tons of people are alone because Christmas has lost the family and intimate relations. The ads push to make us believe the happy families are all over the world but think @ who will live this moment without a loved one, homeless, poors ......
We have to give a meaning to the celebration: volunteer on Christmas day in a shelter; if you're are religious, check your community , if you have no family just call friends and pass by to visit them; book a vacation ....
I'll be alone as well because my abusive husband keeps the family far from me:I'll spend my Christmas to bond with my daughter because we don't have time in everyday life>
Maybe I'll book a ticket at a show ...
It's better being alone than fakely pretend to celebrate>
I think many of us are willing to help: we need to know where do you live.
I live close to Toronto.
2006-10-30 11:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES - for the first time in about 7 years I am actually looking forward to Christmas this year as I will have all my kids & grand kids home.- 3 out of 4 live in other towns - 1 is 2500k's away
I haven't spent a Christmas day totally alone - but hasn't been with anyone I really cared about . divorced 5 years
2006-10-27 10:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this holiday will be extremely hard, this is the first holiday since the loss of our son, Zachary. Needless to say the holidays are going to be tough for me..
Hoping that your holiday does come with cheer and isn't so lonely. Maybe volunteer this year, or start your own holiday tradition.
Tons of hugs from Mel (http://www.youtube.com/ssgluceywife)
2006-10-27 06:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not. there are plenty of people out there just like u. i spent the last 24 on my own ( cos my parents work xmas day )for different reasons n last year my girls went to their dads n i was totally alone for the first time. when there are no kids to enjoy the day it just is not xmas. and this year it's going to be the same, no kids. so i have decided to get together everyone i know that does not have anyone to spend xmas with and we can all party. together. better than bein miserable alone.
2006-10-27 07:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by gangstachick76 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not alone i am feeling the same way It seems most special holidays are geared up to be shared with some one special. But just remember it doesnt have to be a partner it may be that spending time with family can also be special good luck im in the same boat
2006-10-27 06:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by karmakaznelson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
christmas can hit people as depressing , especially if there is not someone to share it with. i have went through many alone times at christmas in my past an they were sad events. but if you just look into the lights that glimer on the tree and hear sweet soft music play , you can't help but rejoice in it all. i used to dream of an x-mas wedding with all the lil' lights that twinkle..and that is how i got thru it. planning on my wedding to be in dec. , even tho it didn't happen quite that way for me, it got me thru the holiday that can be sad when you are alone. good luck an by the way...have a merry christmas!
2006-10-27 08:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
X mas is not just a holiday. The season also is meant for praying,celebrating redemption,offering and receiving gifts and if you care, for dating and marrying. CELEBRATE X MAS. Humans are never alone. Jesus comes to the lonely.
2006-10-27 06:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are amongst thousands who are lonely over the christmas period.....try to make the most of it, call a friend, relative or someone you haven't seen for a long time. no one should be alone at christmas time...
2006-10-27 06:39:56 · answer #11 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋