Because im an only child i tend to feel alone a bit. Every time i make a new friend i am always affraid that they will leave me after a week and i will be on my own. I tend to get upset, then i feel terrible. I dont know why i do it but it happens everytime i make new friends. Its embarassing. Am i weird???
2006-10-26 23:15:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
relax, enjoy and count the blessing with whatever you have now and not to worry about tomorrow cause no one are able to tell and determine what's ahead of us. don't give yourself that pressure of having to loose things/ people in life. people/ things come and go in life and it's normal cause if it's not than we will be too occupied until we have no space for ourselves. so go and enjoy what life can have today.
2006-10-27 02:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,u r not wierd at all.It is only that u lack a bit of self confidence.The reason being the kind of an environment u r brought up in. Next time u make a new friend,just express ur fears to him or her.If he or she understands u then u have made a true friend.But if not,then that friend is not meant for u.Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 07:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by sillo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are slightly insecure. grabbing on to something really tight will only suffocate it. give yourself and your friends some room to breathe.
by the way you need to get in better terms with your self. Try spending time alone without fearing it. Take up a hobby, a nice book, reevaluate your needs. Having people around does not make you less lonely.
2006-10-27 06:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by irini d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of these answers ... but myself am not an only child... and you are def not weird you just need to believe in yourself and learn to trust others. Sometimes when we are scared of loosing someone we suffocate them but you...if you have had bad history with friends I wouldnt blame you for being feeling the way you do. You just need to find a way to gain self confidence, self belief, and also talk to your friends about your worries... If you dont talk to them they will feel like they are not good enough and sometimes that is what scares them off the fear that you dont like them when its your scared of loosing them.
2006-10-27 07:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by cavatina_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself. You're not weird you're different. Don't feel terrible think about the possitive things about you and go for it. Of course they won't leave you after a week. If they do then I don't think you want to be friends with them anyway.
2006-10-27 06:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is kinda weird. Then again, I'm not an only child, so I wouldn't know. Don't think that way or else you'll really end up being alone. Learn to trust other people.
2006-10-27 06:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r onli weird if u feel ur weird.. once u get comfortable with urself.. other ppl will feel comfortable around u.. n den der is no reason 4 dem 2 leave ur side.. nd the thing abt new frnds.. well ur not the onli1..
a secret: make practicle decisions..nd hve an optimistic attitude.. attracts alot o ppl
2006-10-27 06:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not. u need to value urself more and accept that u are good enuf and can remain happy even when alone. that will keep u away from the insecurity of ever being alone. its in the mind dear
2006-10-27 06:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by dimdim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry ms/miss/mrs, it is normal, and you are not weird, Be lucky you don't have to fight for the love of your folks with you bro/sis. since you are the only one. One day you will find a good friend, it will take time.
2006-10-27 06:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.
2006-10-27 07:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by super 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋