why does he neglect me this much?
2006-10-26 23:08:36 · 12 answers · asked by nicky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
~Because you are an unattractive bore with neither personality nor appeal, but you are a place to roost and an excuse for him to avoid committing to whomever he's spending his time with. Hey, you're sticking with him. Deal with it.
2006-10-26 23:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nicky, The harsh truth is he is an egotistical, self-centered,Pr#CK that only cares about himself. This may be hard to take but, you need to hear it- "He does not care about you!!!" Loose this ****** and find a "man" that will treat you the way you want and deserve to be treated. You owe it to yourself. Don't let some jerk take away your pride and self esteem. Be good to and LOVE yourself first then you will find a man worthy of "you." Good luck & Be strong......Just a thought ...Peace.....
2006-10-27 06:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Martini-69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be lots of factor. we can't tell for sure if it's you or not or it's just him but the best is talk to each other and find out more what's on each others head rather than making situations more rotten. we are all given the benefit of adulthood so use it wisely.
2006-10-27 09:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably lies to you because he is doing something he is ashamed of. If you are positive he has lied then ask him why and tell him you need to know the truth even if it hurts.
2006-10-27 06:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by droopy draws 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he lies because he can and neglects because he can.
if you are an enabler allowing this to happen to yourself then you are to blame---You don't like what is dished out---then quit enabling the events to happen in your life!
2006-10-27 06:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married or have kids, he probably thinks you will always be around and cant lose you. Over all if you arent he is taking you for granted.
2006-10-27 06:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you let him get away with it. Grow a spine and stand up for yourself.
2006-10-27 06:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows you will not do anything about it. Next time he lies have a reaction and stick to the reprecussions for him. good luck
2006-10-27 06:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lies to you because he knows you let him do it.
you need to tell him to stop lying or hit the road because you can do better..
never let a man do that to you..
2006-10-27 06:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he is male - they have special classes in school to teach them how to be horrid!!
2006-10-27 06:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋