for another woman, i mean.. im kinda shy of it.. am a bit overweight, too.. and always try to hide as much of me as possible..am ashamed of being naked in front of my gf even.. (please dont say i need to loose weight.. i know..(((( just... any way to feel more confident of myself? i am not Huge...)
2006-10-26 22:08:02 · 17 answers · asked by mwade 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
to answer smb's question.. i wear size 36DD...
2006-10-26 23:58:42 · update #1
Guys like CURVES, not necessairly bresticles
Ask the g/f if she likes them- shes the one who gets to play and look at them, right?
2006-10-26 22:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to start with a picture would have REALLY helped us make a decision here,, but I will say this,, Breasts, Big or small, the sexy about them usually has to do with the female they are attatched to, and the female and the personality that she comes across with,, I mean Hell Yea, there are things you can do with a pair of 38 or 40 DD's that a guy cant do with say 34B's,,, But again,, Its all usually a matter of the female that was so lucky to get blessed with some 36DD's or maybe shes a bigger girl say with 42C's Its how she carries herself, how she dresses, and how she acts in public and when she is drinking ( if she drinks) But I sure wish I had a way I could get some REAL 38D's so then I could know just what it is that women feel when they go thru the day to day life ( as it is I have settle for the breast forms that I have had for years , and due for another pair, but from what I understand They are so lifelike in they way they feel and bounce when walking, ,,,
P.S. What size Bra did you say you have to wear now, ? there is a line between sexy big, and OMG TOO BIG,, and by the way,, Chin up think positiveand just remember,, if your GF didnt like you the way you are she wouldnt be there still huh ? and I myself find that when I am Happier and no depresssion, I eat much less, I am more active and there for I loose weight and you just have to find what works for you and what you are comfy with,,
2006-10-26 22:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
(i know i'm not a guy lol...i hear my guy friends so this is my opinion from what they say) If you've got big ones, they want small ones. If you're a blonde, they want a brunette.. Guys are very visual. In all honesty, look at the many categories of porn. I doubt all guys stick to ONE-Category all the time. Just sayinn.. So you've gotta ba-donka-donk lol Work it! It would be kinda awkward if you were also top-heavy cause then you'd walk like a duck. But I'm sure guys will love it either way! (if they dont, they can buy you some tig o bitties)
2016-05-22 00:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some, you are sexy as is; you can trust that forever.
To others, sexy is driven from within and not connected to breasts, legs etc.
To me, sexy could be the way you look at me, or how you dress yourself that day, or even how flattering it is to think you would want to improve yourself with the help of surgery.
I bet you are a great person, and just not found by the right person who could tell you what other sexy things you do.
Big is not sexy unless proportions are appropriate and fits the personality too.
2006-10-26 22:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Michael K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on me they are, I'm a 46DD and dam proud of it, all natural.
But some women don't look right in them, or aren't attracted to them. Some women like little breast, or medium. Just be comfortable, I was ashamed too to be naked in front of my girl but she made me believe that every part of me is beautiful even the ankle I had to have a replacement in getting away from a dangerous situation.
If your girl loves you, she thinks you're beautiful anyway, or at least sexy. And she should show it
Good luck
2006-10-26 22:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by datcreekgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can be. Personally, I'm more concerned with whether or not the person takes care of themselves. Some people are naturally larger for whater reason, whether it's genetics etc. If the person tries to take care of whatever body they have, I don't care about their size. The only woman that I've ever been with was rather big too.
2006-10-27 04:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I like smaller breasts on a woman. Too big is just ugly, and you have to think of the health risks associated with them. Back problems is one.
And a smaller chest makes for a much more comfy pillow if you want to snuggle up with them. Otherwise you'd might as well sit up and just lean back against them while she is lying flat on her back. ((Not speaking of you and your girlfriend there though))
You really do need to ask your girlfriend though. After all, she has breasts as well, so no doubt she's thinking the same things as you are.
2006-10-26 22:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Maul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to lose weight but if you did I am sure you would feel more confident about yourself, besides if your girlfriend loves you for who you are then you should try to feel more comfortable being nude around her, she wouldn't be with you if she was disgusted with the way you look now would she? but you should also consider losing the weight for yourself not for anyone else, you will be a lot happier if you do
2006-10-26 22:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
larger breasts seem to be attractive to many lesbians...or maybe I should say larger sized women...in any case women don't seem to be as hung up on the weight with each other as much as men are...Self confidence is something else...I have mirrored bedroom closet doors ...so that every morning when I get up I can see how much gravity is winning LOL...I'm 57....this is who I am.
2006-10-26 22:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like them on the larger side.
But to me, the sexiest thing a woman can be is confidant.
2006-10-27 05:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by trivial 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋