only my husband knows what i really think about things because i tell him everything......the good and the bad......and he still has not ran away..........
2006-10-26 21:54:22 · 13 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats fine. You are just careful about who you expose yourself to. That is a good thing considering how many people there are out there that will use what they know about you to harm you.
2006-10-26 23:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mamma Muscles 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitly. I used to lie and be someone else around my husband for the longest b/c I didn't htink deep down inside he would love me for me. Growing up as a child, my self esteem was shot to hello......I still suffer from it now. I have realized that my husband knows me better than I know myself. And I too know him in return. So yes, be who you are and you will be happy. People lie and pretend b/c they are afraid to face the consequences of "true" self reflection.
2006-10-27 05:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing and being honest. The true self should be your only self and not a lie. It sounds like things are good and you should be happy and blessed to have a man who loves you.
2006-10-27 04:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it okay? It's mandatory...but, there's no reason to hurt someone for the sake of honesty. Be practical; if you can be descreet and honest at the same time, it's called 'diplomacy' and they'll love you all the more!
2006-10-27 04:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I think this is fine. I also think its good if he really knows you. You have a good man!
2006-10-27 04:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it good and true. to clear everything and no lies there. every relations based on faith and honesty. for one lie you have to ask 10 lies behind that and additional headace to hide. so why not say truth and always stay happy.
2006-10-27 05:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by GLADIATOR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
eih of course he's your partner in life..you need to show him the real
you because you don't want him to feel that he married another person..so there's no problem in that...but sometimes you need to listen to what he thinks so that you will both know each others real self..
2006-10-27 05:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course, that is what you should be doing. He should be the one person who truly knows you inside and out, and is your best friend.
2006-10-27 07:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hear that ^_^ that means he understands and loves you unconditionally. Your spouse is your best friend, it's inevitable.
2006-10-27 05:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should show your true self otherwise you are a liar
2006-10-27 04:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋