The man whom i love does not cheat me.his wife is so cruel and even no any physical relations are in their relations.as his famoly friend i often go his home and i have many time seen him crying because of his wife.As oer his father's choice he marry with her but its necessary to keep her with through the life?His wife is not leaving with him.He is at her father's home.And demand for 25 lakhs.As it is not possible.Please help me.Our is a true love.And we have some boundries in our relations.
2006-10-26 21:42:22 · 15 answers · asked by Ishi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I respect ur feelings towards him... but dear, how can she demand 25 lakhs like this?? if ur friend has taken any dowry or any property from her ?? you need to understand actual situation..
However if there is nothing which she had kept with herself as a proof then she can not ask for money... You consult any frien who is lawyer & explain situation to him.. Best of Luck
2006-10-27 01:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this, but you should never, i REPEAT never ever deal with a MARRIED man regardless if he's in love with his wife or not, it's THEIR problem and if they choose to divorce, then maybe you two can start it officially. but come on~~ he's married, that's just SOOOOO wrong. It's against the law to cheat on your husband/wife, like seriously, WAKE UP!!! I am very very very sure you can find an 'available' man who's better. I mean what are you gonna do if he does the samething to you? I know you're thinkin 'no he won't he loves me' omg~~~~ why did he marry his wife in the first place? you say his father? are you sure? he probably somewhat did love her enough to still go through with the marriage, right? Come on now~ find a man of your OWN. You don't want another woman's man, do you?
2006-10-26 21:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by hopeless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HE IS MARRIED!!!!!(period) You are cheating yourself, this is how. Where is he right now??? Is he home with you or "HIS WIFE". During the Holiday's do you wake up and roll over to kiss him and say Merry Christmas baby.....I'll make it easier, do you have keys to his home...do you pay your bills off his account...do he bring you around his family on a regular.....pillow talks.......cook him breakfast in the morning...see him off to work.....if you have answered no to the questions, then you are a side-line 304. I"m not saying he don't love you, b/c he might really do, but it's obvious that you love him more than you love you!! Why be second, be the number 1; not being two or more....designated as the first...specified individual, this is my main "one". First place...you think about it.
2006-10-26 21:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm how can i say this where you can understand it ohh hell there is no easy way to say this he is a married man.
oookkk he don't cheat on you but what do you think he is doing when he seeing you umm he cheating duuhhh and once a cheat is always a cheat.
he has a choice to leave her but he is not so she must be doing something right and why are you up in his business why don't you get your own man.
i mean if he wanted you he would of left his wife for you but he must not want you because he is still with her.
you only heard one side of the story i mean if he is such a good husband he wouldn't not be sleeping around with you and you would not be all up in his business.
so move on and get a life.
stop worrying about him because he not worrying about you when he is with his wife .
think about it i mean use your freaking brain....
your the woman on the side..
2006-10-26 23:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say to hell with what everyone thinks if you guys are in love and his wife is not the one for him over step your boundaries and move on with your lives together he should get divorced. It makes no sense that he stays in an unhappy relationship, he should try to stand up as a man and move out of his father-in-law's house. The next step is for you not to rush him into a heavy commitment yet let him breath first and gradually work things in.
2006-10-26 22:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the wife is not cruel but bitter because you came into her husband's life and he changed. Get yourselve your own man, lady. Once you get married to him he will treat you just like he is treating his wife now. Wake up and stop destroying other people's marriages.
2006-10-26 22:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, generally, have to resolve such cases with "discrete" help from the judiciary. Unless, an out-of-court settlement (highly preferable and desirable) is made possible, even including, the help of socially-responsible family elders. The latter method, is guaranteed to be successful, whereas, the former may result in lots of expenditures, uncertainties and very high-stress levels. Decide on your approach, with the help of socially significant family elders, PLEASE.
2006-10-26 21:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have boundaries in your relationship. I don't know if I would want all the emotional baggage that comes with this. If he and his wife are not living together why won't he ge a divorce? Or are there plans on getting back together with her. Watch yourself young lady don't get caught up in his madness
2006-10-26 21:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope i got your message right. Whew.
I think you should respect their marriage. It doesnt matter what they're going through as a couple .. you shouldnt be part of it.
The guy has to choose. If he choose to be with his wife .. then he should stick it out with her and be faithful and stop seeing you.
BUT if he chooses you... then he should be honest to his wife and leave her for you. Its not right to keep both.
He has to make a choice.
2006-10-26 21:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by red_hac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey:
If the two of you love eachother you should have an affair then the wife will be hurt and force to leave him!
The only solution I see is an affair!Then he will come to you forever, 'cos his in-laws will be angry!
Love SANAM
2006-10-26 21:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋