Would You Cheat On Your Partner?? Explain your answers.
2006-10-26 21:39:08 · 42 answers · asked by Anon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just wanted to say that I'm not in this position and I wouldn't cheat either...but I was just curious to see what other's view's were.
2006-10-26 21:52:34 · update #1
No, I'd never cheat. Currently I'm single anyway, but that isn't the point. I respect women too much to ever do something like that, even if the same was done to me.
2006-10-26 21:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Maul 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a person is truly in love with their partner and each was fulfilling each other on all levels, affection, intimacy, trust, support and love, it wouldn't matter if you could or would get found out, you wouldn't even entertain the idea of cheating. I never cheated in 17 years of my relationship, which is now over, but can understand people that do if you are in a 'loveless' marriage/relationship. I don't give credit to people that cheat just because they want sex, repetitive cheats etc, only that i can sympathise why women (sometimes men) who would cheat if they receive little or no attention from their partner. A woman would generally only cheat if she needs to find emotional support and intimacy, whereas a guy more likely to cheat as he wants his sexual urges met , not emotional needs. I wouldn't judge either partner who cheated, until I'd walked in their shoes. For you guys out there make sure you give that woman in your life loads of cuddles and kisses and lots of emotional support, if not, that's when they may look for it elsewhere!
2006-10-26 22:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not about being found out by someone it's about living with yourself. I don't see this as an option for me and I have been in the situation to say yes to someone else but if I thought I wanted to stray I'd end the current relationship because for me that would mean I wasn't truly committed to them and so it would be pointless carrying it on. But if that works for other people, and every1 is different, then that's okay too.
2006-10-30 06:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzierfelt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I'd know what I'd done and it would really eat me up inside. Then I'd end up telling them out of guilt so it really wouldn't be worth it. I've been cheating on a few times buy ex partners and I remember how I felt. I don't think I could put someone else through that.
2006-10-26 22:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were willing to do that you obviously dont love your partner enough.. Yeh sometimes you see a very pretty person or someone that you find really attractive personallity wise, But you cant shag em cos you allready have someone... But then hey some people dont care!!! Do what you like.
I spose the best way to look at it is how would you feel if your partner cheated on you.....
2006-10-26 21:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldnt because i have been in crap relationships before and i now understand that honesty and communication are the things that keep a relationship good and together. If i were to cheat then i would know, and what would be the point of it? What would i get out of it?
2006-10-26 23:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cheated on a partner before and although the person i cheated on him with i'm with now i still regret it and would never want to put any one through that hurt again. Even if they didnt find out, its just not the done thing in a relationship!
2006-10-26 21:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by carlaroberts18 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. That would help building a wall between me and my parner. I could never look him in the eyes and feel the closeness anymore. Even if things aren't that good at the moment, there could be better times, and I would have to live with the fact that I cheated on him. How could I go on knowing that I did not deserve him...?
2006-10-26 21:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because even though he would never no i would an that would mess with my head.
I am happy to say that im am deeply in love with my partner and i am very happy with our relationship so i have no need to cheat.
If ur thinking of cheating on your partner then there must be something your not happy with in tthe relationship.
2006-10-26 21:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be very very tempting, and it depends how much you like your partner but how do you no your never get found out and i think your prob end up living in fear for the rest of the time your with that person...and just remember 'what goes around, comes around!'.
2006-10-26 22:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by babie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋