i have been with my girl for forever and a day. and for all intents and purposes she is the perfect girl for me (size 6, 35C, athletic). she lives with her bestfriend who has a son. because the father is absent i have taken over the paternal role in his life (godfather). I totally love him and treat him like a son.
over the years I have admired his mom who is single and making it work without childsupport from the deadbeat biological dad. she started dating someone and all these feelings of jealousy came out of me (she says its like a brother thing). which is weird because i am not a jealous person. To make things worse i'm having sexual feelings for her. soo inappropriate! i don't understand - she is totally not my type. about a size 14 with well defined curves and 34DD's, eyes that pierce your soull and a dirty *** smile that captures your heart, funny, to the pt and sarcastic.
help! i want to stop these feelings while maintaining my relationship with her and my godson.
2006-10-26 21:30:38 · 3 answers · asked by Mr. Cellophane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMG hunnie... i feel bad for you because it's obvious these feelings are not your intention! teh situation you are in sucks but thier unfortunately may be no way to purge these feelings other than severing all ties with her and your godson (which sucks) to maintain your relationship with your girlfriend.
or keep telling yourself this is stupid she doesnt even have feelings for me! i doubt the second part will work but try it what have you got to lose..... your in tons of trouble as it is!
2006-10-26 21:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by ccdavis01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to stop the feelings....just go with them, perhaps she may feel the same. Don't let the numbers of the figures cloud your vision, let your heart lead you.
2006-10-27 04:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Moi. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh keep ur distance....................
2006-10-27 04:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋