2006-10-26 21:27:59 · 31 answers · asked by Ishi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am exactly in your position. Worst still, i am married myself and both of us have our own children but i know he'snot happy.Neither am i but we broke up anyway because of the kids. I am still hurting. But what can we do but to leave our conscience to do the right thing and hope for the best. So, take care of yourself and not stress about it. God will take care of you. If he is meant to be yours, he will come looking. Good luck
2006-10-26 21:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by angelheart 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is married; you love him and he, too, loves you. So far, so fine. The problem starts when you want to get married to the man who 'loves you more than you love him' (?).
Are you in your senses or not?
This is not love, indeed. At the first place, why a married man should fall in love with a girl, if he is happy with his wife and he is not contemplating divorce. IS IT NOT A PLOY? He is just trying to have fun at your cost. And if still you feel it were love, why he should not marry his love. Dont ask me whether a person could be in love with two women.
WAKE UP & GET OUT OF THIS IF YOU HAD TAKEN IT FOR LOVE.
And if you too were trying to have fun, accept it - HE WONT MARRY YOU.
2006-10-27 04:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him clearly that you r not selfish enough to spoil the another woman's life for own good. But if he has decided to live rest of his life with you than , put a condition taht u can only meet him when he divorces... If he does not, then there must be someone else made by god for you dear... wait for him to come...
2006-10-27 08:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be in love with a married man? Find a single one.
2006-10-27 04:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will he get a divorce for your sake? If yes, he is one who loves you deeply, does he depends on his wife? If yes, when he get divorced with his wife, he will be left with nothing and both of you will soon starve to death. If he still love his wife, I think you had better forget about him. does he have a child? What would both the mother and child do when left with no father?
If not, fight for your own happiness, you would know what to do...
Good luck
2006-10-27 04:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Shin-ii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good! I hope and pray this is my husband and he comes back home to me & his sons just as fast as he can. And just for the record, who the hell are you to screw around with married men anyway? Because of immoral selfish lot lizards ??? The Government has to build more and more prisons in this country to house the abandoned children from each generation due to *** wipes without values.
2006-10-27 05:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Tina Zecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOH. Having an affair w/ a married man who won't get divorced? Well, you and his wife will be hurt in the end and him he just gets the best of both worlds.
2006-10-27 04:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he says he loves you more than his wife? trust me if he did then he would be getting a divorce. He is just playing you, he is getting his cake and eating it and your allowing him to do this. In the mean time i bet your sitting there thinking is he sleeping with her, is he doing this with her, is he doing that with her, its tearing you up inside. Walk away from him.. he is bad news
2006-10-27 07:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by karen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey:
You have to to shape your lives becoz he is helpless, become his wimgs so that he can escape this hell!
Have an affair and break the boundaries then you will see how happy the two of you becomes!
Love SANAM
2006-10-27 04:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely loves you he will file for a divorce sounds like he still caring a flame for his wife maybe you should ask who hed like to lose first?
2006-10-27 04:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by snaggles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋