When i work nights and she has the opportunity to slip out like she did three weeks ago?
2006-10-26 21:01:33 · 14 answers · asked by Red 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is this how you want to spend your life? Come on and get a life......if you must keep tabs then its time to let go
2006-10-26 22:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on what she DID when she "Slipped Out" three weeks ago. If she didn't do anything wrong other than just "Slip Out" then NO, you need to have more trust, but if she did something she shouldn't, then YES, better yet, call it quits now. I'm sorry and I really do not mean this to sound harsh, but if you are so jealous, over-possessive or insecure that you feel you have to know your Lady's every more OR if she is a cheater you HAVE to watch, then your relationship will never work. I'm really sorry, but even you, deep inside, know I'm right. I hate to see such things, but sometimes there is just no other choice. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-10-26 21:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen - you cant have a relationship without trust, it just doesnt work. Maybe you should tell her your feeling a little insecure and then she will be able to reassure you. Please dont keep tabs on her or get a mate to check up on her - she wont like it and this can cause huge problems. Talk to her about it instead.
2006-10-26 21:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should Dump her @ss cold, but If your in the position that you will put up with any of that kind behavior, you better!,
Personally I'm at a point In my life that If I think Ive Gotta keep tabs on you, well that's because I don't trust you In the first place, YOUR SO GONE, NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 21:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by supervfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ahead, as long as you don't mind knowing the truth and know what you are going to do once you find out if she is cheating or not.
If she is not cheating are you going to trust her from now on?
If she is cheating are you going to divorce her?
2006-10-26 21:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll hear this a lot I'm sure, but honestly, if you can't trust her, dump her and find someone new. No woman is worth driving yourself crazy with doubt.
2006-10-26 21:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ciaoenrico 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have your reason damn right you should keep tabs.While your working get your best friend to see what she is doing.
2006-10-26 21:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to 'keep tabs' on her - you shouldn't be with her!
2006-10-26 21:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by reviewee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself the headache and when you go to work just don't come back...
2006-10-26 21:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why cant she go out? you have trust issues or you've done something your not suppose to
2006-10-26 21:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by bizzyboneissexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋