k my best friend i know for 5 years had to run to his girls house on a bike at like 2 in the morning in the city. i told him to watch out cuz i worried like **** and he went, got what he needed done then headed back home. During the times my phone kept dying and i kept calling him back, it died again and i tryed callin him back and he didnt answer, i started to get worried after about 5 or 6 times of him not answering. Finally i got smart and called his house phone, with ease he picked up "hello" im like what the *** man you didnt even bother calling me back after i called you 7 times, he was like "Oh yeah, i got your calls" I then got pissed, JOHN"I got into a deep conversation with Jasmine" I then got furious cuz this is the girl that thought i was a stalker even though i was his best friend. Anyways, Do i got the right to be angry and so furious i cursed him out and hung up on him? I feel like **** now and i need some advice...
2006-10-26 20:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People have to cut their friends a lot of slack or they won't have any friends. That's always been my experience. You have to take yourself and everything else a bit more lightly. That's what "meekness" is...not minding. You're a good guy, though, because you were genuinely caring about your friend and he just didn't get it.
2006-10-26 20:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Babs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you were worried about it just as a friend but then he and his gf seems to think that you are intruding too much. I have been in that position and I left the couple alone to avoid the embarassing situation for a while. I left the worrying part for the gf and moved on to the part where I advised only when my friend or his gf contacted me. Gfs can be quite possessive you know and they can never doubt their bfs and their friends enough. :) So long, leave them alone for a while. They will come around after some time. Let them play the courting stuff for that period and find ways around your friend to fill up your time.
2006-10-26 20:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. You have the right to get mad.. I mean.. cmon.. 7 calls.. But even though.. he had a good excuse.. But no offense but you act like your inlove with him.. your not his mom.. your a friend.. its good that your so concerned but... take it down a notch..
2006-10-26 20:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it was wrong of him to not call you back. But, you are his friend...not his mother.
2006-10-26 20:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now you're guilty... what you did was out of anger...but never do that again...well, if i were in your place, i would surely get irritated...
2006-10-26 20:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋