This is very new to me, I have no idea how to feel or what to think... Or really where to go to get any info. My Fiance' told me that he is/wants to join the Army. We have been together for 3 years and now he wants to go into the Army. He has been in Football for our whole relationship and I dont really see him that much to begin with because he lives in MN and I live in FL. I herd that by him joining the Army it will be even harder because who knows where he'll be and when he is coming back home... so if any1 can help me out that would be such a big help and I will be so greatful... :-)
2006-10-26 19:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by Newbe22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wants to join the army...good for him...but did he ask you what you thought about it? Trust me...it may seem like you never get to see each other now but with the way things are going...as soon as he get thru basic and AIT they'll probably ship him off somewhere much further than MN. If he's really wanting to do this...try talking to him about the national guard or reserves...not such a high risk of disappearing for years on end
2006-10-26 19:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by vickygrrl05 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will probably be closer when he is in boot camp but you will have little to no contact for a month or two until he completes his basic training.
Most Army bases are located in the south. Like GA,SC, TN and TX. Much closer than MN. After he has gone through basic he will go (another base?) for his personnel training (PT) for couple more months . After that he will be stationed at a base and shortly after maybe able to have you join him. If he is deployed (more than likely) and he is married he will receive twice the combat pay and be gone for about a year. He will get leave. He could very well be closer and you could join him if you are married.
2006-10-26 20:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing about joining any force is that of co-operation. Consider that your friend or lover has found a calling and use your ears to listen fpr any positive effect the decision might make. I for one would have never considered the army until now.
I know what Im fighting for.
2006-10-26 19:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by SETH 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely no longer! No approach! Out of the query!!! If I had performed that, God is aware of what my lifestyles might had been like now. I most likely might had been depressing past notion. A pal did that simply to flee an unsatisfied dwelling, received divorced after a few months handiest, and lower back to her moms and dads' apartment extra depressing than earlier than. I consider in marrying the only whom you think is correct for you, the only whom you consider you'll fortunately proportion the leisure of your lifestyles with. Not simply dil ragil wala dil 7eita wahe gawaza wisalam!
2016-09-01 03:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a man in the army. the army is a really good life if you can take the alcohol abuse (everyone drinks) and the time he has to be stationed away from you...(Iraq...Korea (Korea is a 1 yr. station away from your spouse)). Its hard, and with the way the government is today, I hope for his sake he changes his mind. Its a stand up kind of honor, but for the wife its lonely. Best of Luck to you!
2006-10-26 20:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him stand by him no matter what he decides to do
2006-10-26 20:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by jumiboo2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋