my ex does this what does it mean???help me understand pls?

Question

What does this mean????problems with an ex?
Why does he do this and whyat does it mean????
my ex broke up with me 8months ago and still trys to contact me when i tell him i dont want contact....why does he do this? does he still have feelings for me and is there a chance that we coud get back together?

i cant have contact with him if he wants it over and i have told him that but he still trys to contact me and says he wants to know if im ok

what does this mean???
he left me and even if i say dont contact me he turns yp a few weeks later just when i start to fell over him

Answer 1

Don't fall into his web of deceit. If you don't want to be with him, change your number and move on. Don't even entertain his comments or calls. It only feeds his ego and encourages him to continue bothering you. Note: if you broke up, leave well enough alone. Relationships are never the same or as good when you go back to an ex. Left overs are not that appealing, get my drift? If that day old chicken was dry and nasty yesterday, it won't taste any better tomorrow. Keep your head up and be encouraged.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

My ex did that for 5 long years after we split up and it was me that left him. He called me all the time even though I told him no contact. He was doing it because he knew me better than any one else and was so use to talking to me that he couldn't "talk" to anybody else. The last time he called me I told him he needed to start talking to his girlfriend and not me and not to ever call me again or I would tell her that he was still calling me. I haven't heard from him in over two years now, knock on wood. He also just had a hard time of letting go of me even though I really think he knew he would never get me back, but he still had to try.

Answer 4

Here is a male’s point of view:
1)He might still be interested in reviving the relationship.
2)He might not be interested in reviving the relationship but may be interested in smoothing over the hurt and pain, and if possible to have a friendly / working relationship in future.
3)He might not be interested in reviving the relationship but there might be other issues e.g. financial etc that need to be resolved.

And finally a Father’s point of view:
You have not mentioned in our question about any children you might have. Does he have any access to him / her / them ? He should and would be very interested in keeping contact and possibly the custody, shared or otherwise, of him / her / them. Not withstanding your own feelings towards him and your repugnance to the idea of sharing your children with him, it is VERY IMPORTANT for your children that their rights are respected. Note that I have not mentioned HIS rights here. So it would be prudent to play it cool. Nobody likes or accepts rejection easily, I know (I have been a victim like him for the last five years). So please, please, please for the love of God (if you believe in one) do not be a child abuser, talk to him with a cool head and find out any issues that might still be existing. May be he is a solution to some of your present and / or future problems. Although you may not like it but the fact is that neither of you are more important than the welfare of a child.

Don’t assume that you have a God given right of a child’s welfare 100% or more… Let a family court decide that, if both of you can not come to mutually acceptable terms and conditions…..

My advice:
Talk to him and after a few (bursts of) talks when both of you have let out your steam, let go of your egos a certain degree and have cooled down, try REASON…

Good Luck to both of you and to the children also…..

Answer 5

If he left you but, he is still contacting you.....then he has not found anyone else that at least equals you. This is his way of keeping you hanging on while he looks for ms. right. don't waste any more time or emotion on him. Move on to someone who will appreciate and respect you. Someone who wants to be in a loving and lasting relationship. Don't let him keep you on the side burner while he is shopping for his next gal pal.

Answer 6

It's hard to be alone is why he calls you, but remember he's an ex for a reason. You can change your number for 30 days for free and then it reverts back to the old number. This may buy you some time away from him so he will find another way to fill his time.

Answer 7

Sounds to me he's made a mistake and is hoping that you'll take him back.. It's entirely up to you if you do, but once bitten twice shy... If you still have feelings for him and prepared to try again then you need to set some ground rules first....

If you're scared of getting hurt again and don't want a relationship with him, then you need to say yes I'm fine and would be much better if you stopped calling me, if i need you I know where to find you.... I'm sorry to sound like a ***** but my life has moved on without you, I'm prepared to still have you as a friend but this is getting too much please move on I have.... But please be careful,,,,

Good luck

Answer 8

He is playing with your heart.

Next time he calls ask him, what do you want, ask him if he has feelings for you still, if he wants to be together. Only he knows what he feels.

If you really want to get over him, stop taking his calls. Buy a machine, don't answer the phone. If you are ready to move on, move on.

Answer 9

he wants control. he is jealous by the sounds of it and controlling. stay away. if he doesnt want you why get ridof you ? you need to back off and tell him if he doesnt leave you alone you wil put a restraining order on him. what he is doing is stalking by use of telecommunications. i realise you care about him but its best not to go back into the past. step up and move forward.

Answer 10

most likely yo ex still has feelings for u
or he could be usin u
well see i still contacted my ex after we broke up, only cuz i still liked her, and wanted to get bak wit her, i wanted to see how she was doin
because u are broken up doesnt mean the carin and love has to stop
if u really want to get over him, just dont answer his calls