me and my friend had a fight last night..., and it seems impossible for us to be friends again..., why...? because i noticed that this past few months..., he's always ignoring me..., always shouting fOul words in front of me..., also..., he doesn't appreciate the gOod things i'm doing from him..., and he also doesn't care what will happen to me..., he just approaches me when he needs something..., then i started to hate him..., but..., everytime i think abOut him..., i want to talk to him..., but my other half says that i'll only be an ignorant person if i forgave him..., please help...
2006-10-26 19:44:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Forgive But DO Not Forget are the words when it comes to relations with friends. Do not approach until you really feel ready and not angry anymore. When your anger ahs cooled down, try to analyze all the past events that makes you think that he is just using you and whether he helps you out too in your need. If he seems to be using you as a doormat, just be formal with him for a while and let him approach you first. It may not be a sorry but to ask you what went wrong or whatever. But it should be he this time to take the initiative. If you find that it was just the heat of the moment that made you think all this up, then you can always go and be friends again.
2006-10-26 20:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and let him be. Just be careful the next time around he comes about asking for your help. Don't have to go out of the way to help him out.
2006-10-27 03:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that asshole alone,Or you could keep being his asshole.Either way quit complaining.Move on.
2006-10-27 02:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore his mistake, and tallk him...
2006-10-27 02:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋