prefer to ignore me and expects that i will contact him and say sorry for what i haven't done. Should I contact him this time again?
2006-10-26 19:38:46 · 24 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men most of the time dont know how to cope when women need there support so its pretty normal if you love him contact him and tell him you are not going to say sorry but tell him wat you expect from him when you need him
2006-10-26 19:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by mothertiggy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy first and foremost should not do that! and if he tells you that he loves you it is him telling you what you want to hear since guys do that! i have a bf and he never ignores me unless he has a test and that is the only time when he cannot talk with me on the phone or if he is busy helping his parents back home, that is a reason why he cannot hang out with me! your bf treats you like crap, no offense and still expects you to apoligize? what the heck is wrong with him, unless he thinks that he is doing you a favor by dating you? this guy needs to be out of your life faster than you can say "check please" since he does not seem sincere, a gentleman, or appreciative as well as conceited and vain! what do you mean sorry for what you have not done? this guy is a creep, asshole 101, and forget about contacting him! if he so called loves you he will contact you!get rid of him-call the relationship off and find yourself a decent nice guy who is not so bossy or conceited:thinks himself as the world!
2006-10-26 19:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody who expects somebody else to ring up and apologise for things they have not done is playing a cruel and immature game. If he is never there for you when you need him, not only does he not really love you but he is selfish and irresponsible as well.
You are better off without him. Don't contact him. Turn the tables on him. If he comes back to you, tell him it is over. There is no future with this boy and he will never make you happy.
2006-10-26 20:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by WISE OWL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing that your lover loves you, i think that you don't need to see what you doing (saying sorry) to him as a challenge but some thing you do to your self. That will keep flooding all the sweet and goodness things between you and him. Every couple on earth have different problems even if they are married and have children. Let the time come and you will experience every happiness and sadness in this mean world.
2006-10-26 19:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ali M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda what happened to my best friend. http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060926070027AApgIVX
His ex was acting like he didn't exist anymore. Maybe it's the relationship winding down?
If you really really love him, you should tell him that it's hurting you more with him ignoring you like that. He might just be afraid to deal with your situation, or he might just not know how to deal with it or what to do.
What do you have to say you're sorry for? Needing him as much as you do? If he has that attitude that you should just deal with it and that it's your fault, you probabl should just end it at that and move on. Break ups are really hard no matter the circumstances, and I hope that it doesn't have to go through that. I wish you the best, and hope he gets some sense soon.
2006-10-26 22:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Alexia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
From a Mans point of view, you shouldn't contact him. Deep down he expects you too but you should make him do the running. When he does just ask him why does he act like this, this way ...if he loves like he says he does he should open up to you.
All the best
2006-10-26 21:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by BigD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO dont contact him what he is doing is playing with your mind . he expect you to come running. if you always run to him you will tire of the relationship. wait till he comes to you (even it it take ages) and when he does talk to him tell him how you feel good luck
PS if he doesnt come to you hes not the one for you will have more time to find the right one
2006-10-26 20:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let him contact you, he is obviously expecting you to do the running all the time, you play hard to get dont be such a push over.
2006-10-26 19:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by sblairinstalls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, it is very good dat ur boyfriend love u a lot,
other side when u need him....he ignore you, you know life is busy... and everybody have Different priority....so nothing dat he ignore me,...i think when you are find free Probably he will be busy so he ignore you, just sent dat time ur msge to him....may he wil reply to you,
2006-10-26 19:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bharat N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...
Forget about him.
When it comes to any guy that says he loves you... If he truly did... he would be there for you when you need him, no matter what. And if he's blaming you for things you havent done then he's def. not worth it.
No you should not contact him.
Make him realize what he's missing...
This time wait for him to call.
2006-10-26 19:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋