go for the "bad boys" ?
I have heard my male friends discuss this(the good and bad ones)
and I think that men may not be seeing the big picture.
I will tell you why this happens after you tell me what you believe the reason to be......so check back in, after you answer!
mandy
2006-10-26 19:33:36 · 16 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
avani,
No one has more value than anyone else, but ones actions make some people "bad".
Being open minded has nothing to do with it.
mandy
2006-10-26 20:13:48 · update #1
Women are attracted to "bad" boys because they are exciting, adventurous, maybe even dangerous. Often times even women who want "better" men, find themselves drawn to these men. We soon find out that a "bad" boy is a lot to deal with. We may then stay with them for awhile because these men are untamed and fun. However, we eventually begin to understand the chaos that comes with these type of men and then want out. It ends up being a "better" man who gets and keeps the girl in the end. Maybe not the girl you were hoping for, because time has passed and you have moved on to the next girl. Another "good" guy will get her, but eventually it will happen for one to run right into you.
That is...... if you want a "good" girl.
LOL
mandy
LOL
mandy
2006-10-26 21:31:31 · update #2
The bad boys may be fun to go out with, but it's the "nice guys" that they bring home.
Same goes for guys...guys might like the "bad girl" , or the "hoochie", but they're only gonna take the chance of bringing the "nice girl" home to meet mom and dad.
So, I'd rather be a "nice guy" with a home, than be a stray all my life.
2006-10-26 19:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn, I wish I knew for sure why that is, but it seems to be the case. Not always obviously, but alot of the time. Perhaps it's the allure of danger? The tough guy has the potential to be an adept protector in the primal sense. That's said to be an attraction for women. For good or bad, the jerk is likely gonna say exactly what's on his mind. Even when it's not good, no allusions on just where one stands may seen as a relief. Having been a class A arrogant prick before, I can say that I got more attention then, than when being a nice-guy. I suspect the flip side is that sweetheart guys can be seen as a wimp.
2006-10-27 03:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It adds a since of mystery to the relationship. You never quit know what is going to happen next. It leaves you thinking and excited and your blood will rush everytime you are alone with him because anything can happen. If you go for the good guy type then most things are done by the book and you are able to anticipate what his next move will be....The mystery of the bad boys will always lead to excitment and the excitment can lead.... anywhere :)
2006-10-27 02:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by neener892004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause all the Bad boys want no strings attached,
All the bad boys want babes without inhibitions,
and they dont have anythemselves,
Thats where u let urselves loose, with the baddies, Grass, grease and all else,
But I am different, I like love the old fashioned way, Plenty of romance, and promises of eternity, I love it, slow and steady, Passion is the name of the game, I want all strings atached, I also believe in the more the merrier logic.
I am the good guy, Thats me, and the babes do love good guys too. ask ma wife and she will tell you, ask ma other girlfriends and they will tell you too.
John Miskiet.
2006-10-27 02:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never came across this kind of thoughts...bad or good ..wen i fall in love thats was a coincidence he was a bad guy which i found later but he is sweet and caring by heart...he loves me... so i dont think that gals go for bad guys...i alwayz perfer a person with heart....that can love, care, and can feel......so it hardly makes difference whether that person is bad or good..once u are in love u love everything of him his badness, his godness...u start seeing things from his point of view....
And i think no body is bad on earth it our thinking, our own point of view which make good or bad........u just need to see things from others point of view ..........:)
2006-10-27 03:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz some women want bad boys to change.
2006-10-27 02:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by hopeless 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well see thats like my hubby, when we first met or got together, he looked like a biker, with tatoos and the built look, oh so hot. but when we got to know each other well, i found a whole new side, so sweet and caring. when our baby was born he teared up with me, he held both kids first when they were born. he says he loves us all the time.he honestly puts us first no matter what, so i treat him really great. he knows he's appreaciated.and loved.
2006-10-27 02:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by nicky l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz some woman likes to challenge themselves if their charm can tame a wild pig...hehehe but not for me...bad boys are hard to handle and on rlationship, i dont take risk...
2006-10-27 02:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't go for the bad guy, I don't like the bad guy.
2006-10-27 02:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because all girls want to do is have some fun and bad boyz are fun
2006-10-27 02:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by DefenderOfTheMeek22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋