If you were "talking" to two girls, both really intelligent, both beautiful, both funny, BUT one of them was "sweet" and the other was more of a strong-willed "bad girl," which one would you be more attracted to, and ultimately choose to be with?
(I know there's that whole "girls love bad boys" stereotype; does that apply to guys too?)
2006-10-26 19:10:19 · 23 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Sports ➔ Football (American)
Thanks for all the answers so far! ADDENDUM TO QUESTION: Do you think age would make a difference? For instance, if I'm talking about a guy in his early 20s...
2006-10-26 19:17:27 · update #1
a sweet nice smart lady , but she can't be too dominant because it scares us guys away. and who really likes a scary lady but beautiful? like they say,... it takes two to dance...
2006-10-26 19:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by raz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This answer is from an old man
For a young man (18 - 27): it seems which ever feamle gives off the strongest vibes that are willing and able at the moment to have a shared experience then that is the one the male will go with
As males mature - if that ever happens - their tastes develop and solidify. So based on the quality experiences they have with each class of female, that will become their basis.
Those closer to my age, enjoy a little more spice to provoke the same level of emotion and physical reactions. So the bad girl comes out in front at this level.
2006-10-27 02:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Wander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 20-22 I would have gone with the "bad girl", not because I was more attracted to her, but because "bad girls" are easier to get into bed. Now that I'm a little older, I would definitely go for the sweet girl. So I guess it just depends on the maturity level of the guy.
2006-10-27 08:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad girls are fun to party with. Sweet girls are the ticket to a lasting relationship. Enjoy the bad girls to your heart's content, but don't enter into a serious relationship with anyone who isn't a sweet girl, after you're done playing. Point to note, though, the sweet girls often watch and might not want you if you've played around too hard. Just remember, when you do hook up with that sweetie... she's not a bad girl, so you can't treat her with the disrespect you treated the bad girls with. She's a keeper, so treat her right.
2006-10-26 19:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by pair-a-docs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pick the SWEETER girl. I have dated both, and found that the sweeter girls were more to my liking. If a person was extreme either way, I don't think that I would choose them. It takes a subtle mix of both. But I think that I would be happier with the less dominant. I know it might sound sexist, but I like to think anyway, that our relationship is 51% me and 49% her. A strong willed gal would just be too much trouble at times.
2006-10-27 01:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by rock d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never liked "bad girls". Too much trouble and effort for little return. Sweet girls reciprocate or even give without asking in return.
As far as age, I'm 27 and I would probably date anywhere between age 22-29.
In my early twenties I liked 19-25, nothing older. Most guys (like me) like girls around their age or younger.
2006-10-26 21:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sweet one. The strong willed bad girl is not necessarily going to be better in anything.
2006-10-26 19:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age depends. I'd say it matters less in an upwards direction for me(I'm 19.) In any case....I'd probably go with the sweet one. I'm stubborn and strong-willed, so the so-called "bad girl" and I would probably butt heads too much for that sort of relationship. Don't get me wrong...I like my girls with minds of their own, but simply arguing and disagreeing with me isn't going to make me change my mind in a sensible way...
2006-10-27 03:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Elminster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well answering to ur question i must say that mainly guys love the beauties with the brain but going on bad girls can put u in troubles. it is better to have a relation with the 'sweet' one which can be a better option as that relation can last longer.
2006-10-26 19:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by avtar s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the sweet girl. If she's too sweet though, I'd dump her and pick the bad girl. I'm allowed to do that..right ?
2006-10-26 19:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for the sweet girl every time.
2006-10-27 03:07:00 · answer #11 · answered by onemocc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋