i'm a 20 yr old gal pursuing journalism...... my parents booze.....and i hate the way they behave after that ..........i tried to convince them bt in vain.......i'm facing hell lot of prblms b coz of that ....and i thought of taking them to a psyciart......fr alchoholism treatmentv to bt could nt get any solution .......sometimes my dad even misbehaves with me wen he boozes.....and no one to care bout me......last year once wen he tried to attack me i was in an utter shock and was unconcious fr four dayz wanna come out of this bloody **** house.....bt i'm a gal n looking fr some job plz help!!!!!they dnt want me..........i donno y the hell am i born to these sinful people...... and additional to thois is that they doubt me that m going dating ..........bt seriuosly i'm nt dating anyone getting fed up ya!!and nw my bro has come up with a rumour that i'm dating someone......where i'm a bit spiritual and that kinda gal.....wanna get of of my house bt no financial support frm anyone.....
2006-10-26 19:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi,
Where are you pursuing you journalism. Can you talk to your principal and see if she/he can help you with some kind of accommodation in a hostel or get you a scholarship. If not you need to start working immediately. Getting a job in a call centre is very easy. Why don't you get one then you can wait for some months in the house and at the same time start finding your self a place to stay. Move in as a PG somewhere or girls hostels are always there start applying. If you could tell which city you are from we could hunt a few for you. Once you get a place to stay just move out. In any case if you get a job please don't keep the money in the house. Open a bank account somewhere and deposit all your money there. Under no circumstances get the money home. Do you have your own room? Than once you enter your house just lock the room and don't let anyone enter in the house. As far as your brother is concerned why don't you ask him to mind his own business and let you live.
Take Care, Good Luck & God Bless
2006-10-26 19:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must get a job and stand on your own feet.
I think you can join any Call Center or BPO around your place. Being pursuing journalism, I hope you have enough command over english. These places are easy to join, and they pay fairly enough for you to rent a place or pay hostel charges.
Concentrate on your journalism and fair well.
Do not loose hope. Take these tough times in your own stride. Believe in "When the going gets tough, the tough gets going"...
And before you know, there'll be someone special to fill in the emptyness of your life..
I personally feel you'll make a wonderful wife to anyone. Coz you've seen a lot of ups and downs in your tender age.
People like you become very strong and can take life the way it comes. And thus others can depend on you as they'll feel secure with you.
Best of Luck!!
2006-10-26 19:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Frank_walker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend ,i really pity u.u say ur parents(especially ur dad) misbehave with u after they drink alcohol.but how do they behave otherwise(when they are in their senses).
look i am glad u are looking to get a job.but i dont think leaving the house is the best solution.they are ur parents(however bad they may be).what ur family needs is LOVE.
rather than thinking of leaving the house think about making ur family happy.even when ur father hits u dont react violently because violence only leads to more violence.talk to him kindly and i am sure he will feel guilty.
i think ur family has to be together.why dont u ,ur brother and ur parents go to see a movie together or go shopping some evening.
what i am saying may sound very impractical but remember love and kindness never fails.
right now ur family relationships are in a mess.slowly and surely try to bring love into ur family.this process may take long but dont lose hope.one day u and ur family will be happy and my sincere prayers are for that.
2006-10-27 09:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Survive_each_Session 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u look for a PG accommodation/hostel , stay with friend , and start doing a job so u can feed ur self,
do not feel alone, the whole world is with you, it's testing time of your life , if you will pass the with flying colours , you will c the good results,
someone ,some where is waiting for you there, first priority is to make your carrier /money to be independent , the rest will follow automatically ,
god bless u
all the best
2006-10-27 00:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hellhouse! What you need immediately is a job to get out of there. Go all out to land one. Till then just face them courageously and determinedly. Pay them back in the same coin. If they hit you, you hit them back. Give them a bloody nose. Raise hell. Let people know. They would come to your help. Maybe that would make those wretches sober.
2006-10-26 19:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey search for a job and leave them, take support from friends it no point staying with them. just be strong and go ahead sin you are spiritual i believe god will help you, dont worry
2006-10-26 19:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pity you. I wish you get married and get a reprieve from this hard life. Have faith in God. He will not leave you. My prayers for you.
2006-10-27 02:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN STAY AT MY PLACE TILL U GET A JOB :)
2006-10-26 22:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by smacky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that house immediately,be brave
2006-10-26 19:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by bobby_singh_rai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we talk? please log on to your IM!
Sincerely
Raj
2006-10-26 19:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Raj S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋