i have a huge problem.i'm like extremely self-concious and i always think im ugly, and fat ect.
here i'll describe myself. I might not sound ugly but i feel like it sometimes..:i've got shortish choppy brown hair, freckled hazel eyes(with green), im 5'4 and i weigh like 124.4 or somethin like that,...oh ya and im 14 years old... =(.....everyone says im pretty but i just dont feel like im pretty..and i've never had a boyfriend i've never had a "first" kiss or anything..and like but im weird lol..not in the bad way tho...but and most of my friends are all like 110 lbs and 105 and even like 100 lbs...and i wish i was like that....i dont know why but i do....and i seriously dont know wut to do...???im sorry for makin this so long... =(
2006-10-26 18:59:15 · 17 answers · asked by .anna. 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
my daughter is the same, and she is absolutely stunning!!! i don't think there is a girl in the world that complains about this or that about herself. don't aspire to be like everyone else, just be yourself and people will respect you a lot more. there is nothing attractive about a girl who looks at her own reflection 100 times a day, she obviously has no more room in her life to love anyone else
2006-10-26 19:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope you'll read this. I know people say things like, you are pretty, or other things that you find hard to believe so I won't repeat them. But please listen. I'm an adult now and you might think I don't know, but I do. It's so hard to be young and always seeing others that we wish we looked like. It took me a long time to like myself and even now I sometimes don't always like what I see in the mirror. But as I've gotten older I've seen how people I thought were so perfect were the one's who were the most unhappy. Your discription of yourself could be the way someone else wishes they looked. I can tell your have a kind heart and your looks become more beautiful because of that. God don't make mistakes and although as humans we seem to never be satisfied, try to be happy and the wonderful girl you already are will turn into the one everyone else wnats to be friends with. The boyfriend and all that will come in time. But never look to other's to make you feel complete. One day when you least expect it someone will come to you and all the questions you have will be answered. But the most important one's only you can answer, in time. Enjoy life and all that it has to offer. Little by little things will make sence. That's the adventure we all share. I know I sound like another dumb grown up. There were times when I was younger where I felt like a gross pig. I was skinny, with acne and all the other guys played sports while I stood by with a runny nose. Then I had my children nd they loved me for me. My friends and family love me and now when I look in the mirror I think, hey, not bad for a use to be nerd. Look at the positive things about yourself and if there are things you feel need to be polished then do it, but do it for yourself. The feeling you get inside will amaze you. Good luck to you and hang in there. You already have a good heart and God will help you when He feels you need it. God Bless.
2006-10-26 19:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I think everything will happen in time for you. I thought I was ugly in high school too. This will change for you though as you get older. Your weight is fine for your height. If people tell you that you are pretty, then I would try to believe it. If lots of people say it then it has to be true and from what you just described, I think you sound like a very pretty girl. You don't have to be down to 100 to be liked or pretty. I'm 116 pounds and 5'1 and a half and my boyfriend loves me no matter what! I'm shorter than you are, and sometimes my mom will even tell me that I'm chubby and my dad too, but I know one person in the world that thinks I'm gorgeous and perfect just the way I am, and he loves me and you will have the same thing in your life too one day, just don't grow up too fast and don't rush things into happening for you too fast. Your very young still and things will happen in time for you. Enjoy being a kid because it does not last forever. :-)
2006-10-26 19:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your weight is fine, hazel eyes are mysterious and interesting, hair can be tamed with a little pomade and a bit of experimentation (maybe some pink hair dye!) and I while I had my 1st kiss at 13, I didn't have my second kiss till I was 19. Your friends are underdeveloped. And boys at your age are immature idiots anyway. You are beautiful, for who you are. Have confidence in yourself, and even Godzilla becomes a goddess!
2006-10-26 19:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had once a problem like that. Please take my advise and dont think of this stuff. It will only depress you more. The probles with you is still personal. There`s this friend of mine who always teases me that i am not looking good at all and stuff like that. Ya .. i also hav a couple of extra pounds on me But so what ! ... Just start to love your self. Spend some quality time with friends, or if they are not showing any attraction towards you , just leave em and start making new friends, you`ll start feeling better. hOPE THAT hElPS ... SALIK
2006-10-26 19:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Salik K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that skinny doesnt equal beautiful, you can be curvy and be absolutely gorgeous. and not having your first kiss doesnt mean youre ugly....it means youre young, don't rush it. Be happy with who you are, Im sure you're beautiful. But how you feel about yourself reflects on other people. If you start believing that you're truly beautiful, other people will follow. But it sounds to me like they already think that.
2006-10-26 19:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you feel bad about yourselves you are doomed. Start looking positive and things will be brighter.
2006-10-26 19:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being stick thin is not necessarily beautiful and can actually be a turn off. curvy can be really sexy when u know how to carry urself. about the bf thing, no need to rush it.the more u think abt it,the lesslikely u are to get one.
2006-10-26 19:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by mika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who so worry? as long as you grow normally, nothing need to worry much. But yes, people say you are pretty, it may not true,
why have to worry that you don't have boyfriend and first kiss? This will come one day.
you are just fine, nothing to worry of.
2006-10-26 19:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by I am Faked 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the internet no one cares what you look like and people lie all the time.
Stop living your life by other people's standards. And stop worrying about how you look.
2006-10-26 19:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋