Why does he do this and whyat does it mean????
my ex broke up with me 8months ago and still trys to contact me when i tell him i dont want contact....why does he do this? does he still have feelings for me and is there a chance that we coud get back together?
i cant have contact with him if he wants it over and i have told him that but he still trys to contact me and says he wants to know if im ok
what does this mean???
he left me and even if i say dont contact me he turns yp a few weeks later just when i start to fell over him
2006-10-26 18:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's a control freak playing with your mind. If he broke up with you and still cared about how you were, then he would respect your feelings/"no"/boundaries. This way he can keep hurting you.
He broke up with you and wants to keep you available if nothing better comes along. He controls you and feels more like a man this way when he really is acting like a moron.
Tell him NO. Let him buy you a stack of post cards. Promise you will write him once a week. If he balks, he is cheap and out to no good.
2006-10-26 18:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,,
ok he cotacts u fine ..
look mam u have asked a question,, but we really dont know u people so my suggestion is in general keeping ur question in mind,, rest u have to decide coz u know him better then anyone of us,,,,
if u fell he is really carrying just give him chance ...let him say what he wants to if u fell he is really worth for u then go,,,,
but withought giving someone chance to prove and deciding the thing is wrong..
"A GOOD WAY TO CHANGE SOMEONES ATTITUDE, IS TO CHANGE UR OWN. COZ THE SAME SUN MELTS THE BUTTER HARDENS THE CLAY TOO"
hope u get me mam
hitesh
2006-10-27 01:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by Hitesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your like the worm and he's the hook. Every time you start to get off the hook he wants to re-impale you back on the hook. Or you can look at it this way. He doesn't want you with anybody else so he keeps you just close enough to keep stringing you along. Get a gun carry permit and let him know your packing. That should stop him in his tracks.
2006-10-27 01:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Plantoneonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes trying to keep you as his rebound girl. Doesnt want you to stray too far in case he needs you. Love em and leave em is what sounds like his policy is. Dump him before he can break your heart again.Hes not worth your time.
2006-10-27 01:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens with most people who break up you show them no attention they crave for it ain any way they can get it to know that there still close to you some how,if you try to contact them and stay close with them or harass them aLITTLE TO MUCH THEY WILL PULL THE FURTHER AWAY FROM YOU AS POSSIBLE
2006-10-27 01:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to be friendly, no big deal. If he has mistreated you in the past, then I agree that you don't want him near you. Think about that!
2006-10-27 01:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't stand the thought that you want a life without him in it.
2006-10-27 01:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah girl don't do it!! trust ive been in that situation.. if u give him another chance he will do the same it will hurt u twice as more trust!!!
2006-10-27 01:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he either is worried about you or wants the satisfaction of knowing you still want him
2006-10-27 01:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to control you.
2006-10-27 01:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋