I'm so sad right now. I think I'm giving up hope in ever getting pregnant. What can I do to not feel this way

Question

Doctor says everything is normal but I can't get pregnant. A few days ago my hubby and I got really exited cause we thought it had finally happened but it didn't and now I don't only feel extremely sad I'm also giving up hope.
What also makes it worst is that my family knew that there was a posibility that I was (last week) and everyone was exited calling me every 2 hours asking if I had gotten my period (I was late and I had never been late before).

Answer 1

Don't worry it will happen, your just too anxious..........It seemed like it took me forever too, and then one day bam, and then bam, three more times after that. My husband and I were together for three years before I even got pregnant and after the first one came, three others came right behind. Once you have your first, that's it they just keep coming. Next time don't say anything to anyone, wait it out until you are sure. Don't give up if the doctor said your fine then it will be okay. Don't think about it, or wait for your period, to see if it comes, just ignore it and it will happen. I'll pray for you.....................

Answer 2

My wife and I have had two children and have a third on the way. Our first child came after about a year of unprotected sex. The second was about 10 months or so and this last one that she is pregnant with now also took a while. You will get pregnant when the time is right. You can not stress yourself out though. Stress seems to cause miscarriages and it causes mental and physical strain that isn't healthy. Anyways, my advise is to stop trying so hard and just put it in the back of your mind. Your time will come, be patient and you'll be blessed when it is your time.

Answer 3

How long have you been trying? Typically, it takes AT LEAST a year before you conceive, but often times it takes longer. I thought that I couldn't get pregnant, and was even told by a doctor that I couldn't. As it turns out, I had a baby on Valentine's Day of this year! Hallelujah! So, yes, it is sad when you are trying so hard. But you need to exercise, eat healthy, drink lots of water, and start taking prenatal vitamins. They contain folic acid which helps you to conceive. You'll be fine. Don't put so much emphasis on it and then it will happen.

Answer 4

First of all, the more you try to *stop* feeling this way, the longer it will last. Let yourself feel the grief. Cry. Beat up a pillow, if it helps. Give yourself a set amount of time to totally give in to your emotions.

THEN.....dry your tears, take a deep breath, and tell yourself that it's still possible for you to get pregnant, it just didn't happen this time. You just have to keep trying.

AND.....for heaven's sake, don't tell ANYONE except your husband until you are ABSOLUTELY SURE. I'm sure you've figured that one out by now, but thought I would reinforce the message.

I hope you have better luck next time.

Answer 5

Make sure that you are eating with proper and balance neutritions instead of amount of food (especailly junk foods). Second, each person (female) has her own period and the time of pregnancy (some are early, some are late), so as long as your doctor (I hope the doctor is female) tells you that your body condition is good. Don't feel sad if you can't get pregnent, pregnancy is something that you can get it with the right time (sometimes, it depends on the chance as well). See your doctor (better if the doctor is female, she can give you more helps on this kind of stuff than a male-doctor).

Answer 6

particular. i comprehend precisely what you're talking approximately. My previous BFF and that i've got been so close. as quickly as my husband and that i introduced our engagement she looked much less invested in our friendship. She became in my wedding ceremony and large supportive for the time of the 1st year. Then when I introduced my being pregnant she looked very annoyed. She became engaged on the time and that i became her matron of honor. I informed her i may be 5 months alongside on the time of her wedding ceremony. I dont comprehend if that became the turn off by way of fact it would "smash" her day or what. yet on condition that that day our courting slowly have been given worse. I informed her off asserting that my existence plans should not be a "burden" on her wedding ceremony, that she could be happy for me! My husband and that i attempted for 10 months formerly conceiving our son so for us it became any such blessing. After her wedding ceremony i found out she became leaving a month later to stay in Cali along with her hubby, who's stationed there for the army. i've got no longer talked to her on condition that....2 years in the past. She informed me that she became ill of ppl being pregnant and continually talking approximately it. I too stopped talking approximately it, yet how could desire to I no longer communicate approximately it! She made me sense responsible that i became pregnant and shifting on with my existence. on condition that then i'm lots happier by way of fact my son is the main suitable element, different than getting married, that has ever happend. And her opinion no longer concerns. She on no account needs teenagers, which i think of had a capability on her habit. i think of its quite immature and impolite to make such judgements like that b/c being pregnant is very exciting!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Don't pay attention to nanny no one knows who you are, If you have a problem that is what this site is for. If you have already been checked out by a Doctor than you need to get your husband in there to see if he has some problem.If every thing is ok than start having daily passionate sex you should be pregnant in no time.

Answer 8

My wife had a miscarriage first time she was pregnant, After that we didn't have a lot of success. She went in and had a procedure, they said they would clean things up I don't know what it was called a d and c or somethingl ; Now we have two great boys. Never give up, but be ready to consider other options.

Answer 9

It will happen!! Im sorry you are so down in the dumps but try and look on the upside and have fun trying, stop stressing about it, and just let things happen. You mentioned that everything is ok with you, but has your husband been looked at?

Answer 10

First of all, you need to learn to keep your business private between your husband and yourself! That's really important.
I'm not saying this to minimize how you feel, but I really think you need to go on with your life and enjoy it, and if you get pregnant, great if that's what you want. The more stressed you get, the tougher things seem.