i keep thinking i'm in love then i get hurt then i say i wont love then one day later i like 4 or 5 guys. and i want a relationship
but i cant choose one. i'm confused help me.
2006-10-26 17:40:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my sister found her husband in highschool.
i want to be like her but younger finding love or liking someone.
2006-10-26 17:55:17 · update #1
i dont think you fall inlove with the guys, but more so the notion of being in love. you are obsessed with that rush, that feeling you get when you start seeing someone.
2006-10-26 17:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't something where you can just all of a sudden want, pick or choose!! It has to grow, build over time as you get to know one another. No confusion to it. If you keep trying to have an instant relationship, you will keep on getting hurt. Take your time, there is no rush on love...you have your whole life!
2006-10-27 00:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to really be in "love" you will not get hurt. I bet what you really are feeling is lust and attachment. Make a top 5 need list of what you want in a guy and if you find one that matches it then allow yourself to love him. If not hold that part back and just have fun.
2006-10-27 00:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Daes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're too focused on wanting to be in love. I also think you're not really sure what the difference is between having a crush, liking somebody and really being totally, mind-blowingly inlove!
Give yourself time, from the sound of your question, you're young.Focus on developing yourself first, explore life not just crushes and being in love but LIFE. In time, you'll see the difference of crushes and REALLY FALLING FOR A GUY. It'll hit you right in the forehead.
2006-10-27 00:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like u just need to relax and take a break from dating boys etc go out have fun with your girls flirt but dont fall in love! when its time the right guy will come along! and u will know there the one
2006-10-27 00:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
woah, no wonder you are confused!! stop trying to fall in love and embark on a friendship first!! you need to determine what qualities you are looking for in a man that will suit you the best. don't just fall for any guy, be choosy and ask yourself if they stack up to your expectations. you are getting hurt because you simply are selecting the right guy for you!
2006-10-27 00:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe the love wasn't as strong as you thought it was. that's normal though. you can do that now .sooner or later you will find the one that is right and you will have that one. Its just you have to sift through them till you find who is the right one. But be careful.confusion is difficult and can be misleading .
2006-10-27 00:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you fall in and out of love fast its ok so do i. just tale a break from dating and men ingeneral figure out what it is u want in a guy and ten look for those qualitys only.
2006-10-27 01:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by ang. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love you are trying to find someone to share your love with. this is a prfect example of lust. be friends with the guy first and then see what happens. by no means don't be intimate with any of them.
2006-10-27 00:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is confusing...keep experimenting til you find the right person.
2006-10-27 00:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋