Hi my name is Brad Im 13 ,Im in love with my sisters hot friend..shes 18 should I tell her??.its killing me shes so pretty..Do you think she would like me?
2006-10-26 17:34:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
18 year old hotties usually don't date 13 year old boys... but what the heck, maybe she will give you a sympathy kiss...
2006-10-26 17:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Brad,
If you tell her that you are in love with her, she would think that's the sweetest thing but my guess is that she will only see you as a little brother, since you are her girlfriend's younger brother.
Girls at that age would prefer guys at similar age or older.
So far, you mentioned that she's "so pretty". Is that all that you like about her?
Keep your feelings under the lid for now and wait until you are a bit older, like when you turn 18 yourself. Who knows, she may fancy you too when you are a bit older, but maybe not now, because you are still young. Another thing, when you are older, you may fancy another girl who is great in everyway and then you think back to the time you were 13, you would say to yourself how crazy you were for having a crash on your sister's friend.
Until then, try to keep cool hey.
TD
2006-10-26 18:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not a good idea to profess your undying love for your sister's friend. It is a rare thing for an 18 year old young woman to even give a 13 year old boy even a second glance. Plus, legally, she would have to put the relationship on hold for five years if she returns your feelings. There are laws governing this type of thing.
Keep in mind that if your sister finds out about this, she might never let you live it down.
Stay in school, don't take drugs, and one day, you'll have all the hot girls you could want!
Good luck!
2006-10-26 17:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by sendmedaisies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brad, your sisters friend is a little too old for you right now. She may be hot, but she's not the right one for how old you are. You would be much happier if you found someone closer to your age. She probably wouldn't give you the time of day, or she may use your wanting her so much to lead you on making the lust much worse.
2006-10-26 17:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by me_laub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to you Brad, but that could be statutory rape, they have laws against that kind of thing!
You can tell her and she would probably be flattered, but there is no way an 18 year old would or should date a 13 year old, that is just wrong!
2006-10-26 17:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is a term "jail bait" and I doubt your sister's friend would want to find out the exact meaning of that phrase. Besides, you would only bore her. Stick with girls your own age becase at your age there is nothing you have that would interest an 18 year old girl.
2006-10-26 19:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid trust me. Your 13. Your not in love, your hormones are just telling you you are really attracted to her. All part of being a teenager. But no don't tell her or your sister. Girls think on a really high level by 16 anyway and the figure your not on their level anyway. Hope that helps.
2006-10-26 17:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by bigtank3938 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to anyone who say go for it theyre just telling u what u want to hear im gonna tell u what u NEED to hear and that is if u really love him which at 13 I really don't think you know what true love is its just puppy love right now but anyways leave him alone if u love him u will do this if u stay with him he will end up in jail for statutory rape even if its concentual (u want to have sex with him) not saying that u r right now but hes 18 and a man and has needs and desires so its bond to come up. take my advice and let him go if he really loves u he will wait for u to be of age.
2016-05-22 00:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not tell her, and No, she would not like you. It's better to hear it from me, an impersonal guy from the web, rather than embarrass yourself to your sister and her friend. if anything, if you trust your sister, you can tell your sister that you really think that her friend is so pretty. maybe your sister -now that she knows what kind of girl you like- can help hook you up with someone that's closer to your age.
2006-10-26 17:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by methodz1218 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your 13. She's 18. That should be obvious.
2006-10-27 07:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 will get ya 7... You wont be 13 when she gets outta prison... Its cute that you pine for her... Love, it isnt... Lust, it is... Come on.. you're hormones are raging and she's beautiful.. She wouldnt give you the time of day.. at 18, most women are trying to date men in their 30s, not teens...
2006-10-26 17:49:30 · answer #11 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋