2006-10-26 17:26:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think that's a temporary solution to a deeper problem. if you both are unhappy in your marriage, you should look into counseling or if that's not an option, then perhaps you should just part ways. it'd be better for everyone involved.
2006-10-26 17:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to have some release, but try to figure out why she does not want to have sex. Does she feel ignored or unwanted? I can guess that she is wanted if you are horny and needing an outlet like porn, but she may not feel that you do by your unknowing actions. Take time to see if there is anything you can do to spice up the sex life. And stop calling her your "so-called" wife. If you ever do that in front of her that might be one of the reasons. I can see why you're frustrated though and I think it's okay to watch porn. I watch porn all the time! : )
2006-10-27 00:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife probaly has a reason she doesnt want to have sex. If theres no reason...then maybe its something medical where she isnt in the mood alot. I would talk to her about whats going on and see if your looking at porn is whats turning her off and not wanting to have sex. If thats not the case, think of different ways to spice things up. Theres tons of books and other things that could make it a little different rather than the same routine.
2006-10-27 00:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered that might be WHY she doesn't want to have sex? I don't think there's anything wrong with porn in moderation - it can do wonders for your sex life but, if you are obsessed with it and would rather watch a flick and yank yourself off than make love to your wife, it's probably a problem. Talk to her! Good luck
2006-10-27 03:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by IAMDQUEEN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd be trying to find out WHY she doesn't want to have sex. A healthy married couple should try to work out the problems in the marriage, not ignore them or find unfulfilling substitutes. You need to talk to her before it gets any worse. As for the porn, I don't know a single guy that doesn't like it. But that doesn't mean it doesn't bother your wife. Please talk to her the world doesn't need another dysfunctional marriage.
2006-10-27 00:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time? For real would be a problem. Why don't you find out what is going on with your wife and try to get something real started...
2006-10-27 00:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Robyn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's healthy... I bet your wife appreciates you not going to get the real deal because she's not taking care of her man in the bedroom. I hope she isn't complaining about it when she's not providing for you. She would really have her nerve if she is!!! You need to be satisfied somehow. I'm proud of you not cheating instead. She should be too!
2006-10-27 00:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck, If my wife didn't put out I would look at other women, to hell with porn!
2006-10-27 00:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy with porn and wanking, fine. Life ought to be more than that for those who want more; perhaps dump her, and start life over before you get too old.
2006-10-27 00:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes of course it is... get her to watch it with you if you can, it might spark an interest in her... I assume she did want to have sex before she became your so called "wife"
2006-10-27 00:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋