he has gotten close to strangling me and I still want to see him when he calls me. What do I do. I called the cops. Am I sick
2006-10-26 17:13:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some girls seem to be attracted to the "bad boy" type. Maybe that's your problem. But guys that beat girls up are not bad boys, they are cowards. Ask yourself if you are attracted to cowards.
Dump the bum and find a real man! Your loser coward boyfriend will probably be too chicken sh!t to face another man.
2006-10-26 17:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tom G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to someone .call the cops put it on record .Get some help. No one has the right to do what he is doing to you. you are a person and you need to treated like one. sounds like you have some problems liking you self or have you stayed with this person so long that he has you thinking that no one will want you but him or that you cannot do any thing with out him. All this is not true you are a person and need to be respected you are important . Let know one take that from you. if he kills you he goes to jail but how many people will he hurt before this happens.Think about the next person who ends up with him. please get out while you can.
2006-10-26 17:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN as fast as you can hunny. Nobody and i mean nobody deserves that kind of treatment. Talk to a trusted person. File a restraining order. No matter what he says ( like oh baby i wont ever do that again or you wont find anyone else) Do NOT believe him. you need a REAL man who wont treat you like this. Don't think he loves you because a man who loves his partner would never do these things. Keep talkling to the police and tell others what he is doing. you are in my thoughts
2006-10-26 17:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my opinion on this little situation you have yourself in:
you are seeing him because you enjoy doing something you shouldn't do, you get a rush from being bad and you enjoy the drama, it adds something to your life . . . .
but you will soon (or maybe not so soon) realize that it gets old, and he probably won't really kill you, because if he was that bad, he would have killed you by now, if you are going to kill someone, you don't try it over several chances, you are filled with so much rage and hatred you do it right then and there . . .
so my point is, he's not going to kill you and you like mini lifetime series you call life
*while this is all fun and games right now, do not marry this guy, you will deeply regret that!
2006-10-26 17:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Astrid Beau Bega Belda Calixte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe for some reason you feel like you deserve being treated bad, but girl, NOBODY has the right to put their hands on you, stand up for yourself and get away from him, he'll probably follow you for awhile, but if you don't give in in any kind of way he'll probably give up and leave you alone, you really need to let your family and friends know what's going on so they can check on you to make sure you're okay. good luck i hope everything works out for you!-------------------and the psycho saying the killed someone, I don't think they should be offering any kind of advice!!
2006-10-26 19:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the police..visit a crisis center for battered women..you will see that a man that beats you is pushing you away. If he loved you he would treat you like a princess. Sorry hon, he's just not that into you. You may lose your life before he proves it to you.
2006-10-26 17:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh. my. god.. you HAVE to get out - now! you need help - stay away from this man - he could kill you - he is dangerous. if you still want to see him after he tried to strangle you, you need your head checked (it is not 'love' - it is manipulation - there is a fine line between the two).. move away - ask family and friends to help you.
2006-10-26 17:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not sick. You are in love with a loser. Leave before something terrible happens, and believe me it will sooner or later.
2006-10-26 17:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in love and sometimes love can make you do strange things,But you can't see your bf then call the cops.you need to get some serious help..
2006-10-26 17:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called being brain washed....you think you love him because he says stuff to you that makes you feel good. hes controlling you and u cant let him do that to you ...call the freakin cops woman! ..i hate when girls end up this way because guys do such stupid stuff to them . it makes me hate guys more and more every day .
2006-10-26 17:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by rave_shock14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋