well this guy i like dumped me for my best friend and then he dumped her and he wont go out with anyone now he only used me and my best freind for physical things...and now he wont talk to me his best friend (a girl)...hates me and is like best friends with my best friend and his other friend likes me but my best friend says not to go out with him cuz he used her and all the other girls...his best friend is trying to turn him against me and I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
2006-10-26 17:06:27 · 13 answers · asked by dezzynicolaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hopefully you are yuong and have learnt a very valuable lesson bout guys becoming friends with groups of girls. its so they can either get with them or get them to help with hooking up with other girls. these guys are just working through your group. the girl that is turning people against you is jealous of you. she wants the guy that gotwith you first, but he is not into her. that annoys her, so she takes it out on you. as for what to do. stay close to your friend. forget bout the other guy.
2006-10-26 17:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I understand the question you are posing...
You like this guy and he dumped you for your best friend then dumping her in turn, practically using the both of you as playthings and you are concerned about why he won't give you the time of day?
My question is: why should he be of ANY concern to you?
It is evident from your question that he views you and other women as slabs of meat, not as human beings with feelings, cares, wants, and desires. He even has a reputation as being such.
What should you do? Chalk this up as a painful, but important learning experience -- there are worse things than being dateless. Be choosy about who you let yourself go out with.
2006-10-26 17:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all grow up and stop using ur body to get guys. That's why u r attracting such losers. If u cared about ur self more and had a better perspective of who u r u would attract better men and not boys who just want u physically. I'm sure ur a beautiful young lady which needs to feel better about ur self first then u won't have these problems. Dump all those losers and listen to ur best friend.
2006-10-26 17:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap...that's so confusing...But I can try and give some advice...Ok, first sorry to hear about u and ur best friend. It's probably better if u don't talk to that guy anyway.
Oh and don't hate guys because there's nice guys out there (like me lol) there's always someone else for u.
Sounds like that guy's best friend is just being a b*tch. Just tell her to *beep* off and get out of ur life.
As for this other guy, that depends on what u think of him, not what ur friends tell u because ur the one who's dating, not her. Just follow what ur heart tell u.
Hope that helps
2006-10-26 17:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by perfectly_messy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need new friends!!! or at least the player dudes. i would back off those boys and not stress over what every1 thinks. let the world and, if your religious, God take care of u and wait it out. Get to know any of these boys u want to go out with without making any moves 4 a little while. If u r almost positive he isn't using u then give him a chance but back out when u need to. Don't let him use u, though.
2006-10-26 17:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by mary-jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say girl, but these guys sound like idiots. And for the record being used is a two way street. You had to give of yourself to be used. Make sure you get to know the guy for a couple of months before you have sex. Forget about both of these guys and find someone who really cares about you.
Good luck.
2006-10-26 17:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by No Way 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude...if there's that much conflict over a guy and his friends, or your friends, or whatever...you really seriously need to find someone else to hang with. If this boy you like really is your friend, he'll stay that way. But if he's shallow enough to get pursuaded otherwise, then he isn't worth the drama at all girl.
2006-10-26 17:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Corinne 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get new friends!!!! This sounds like a nasty circle that you got yourself into.
2006-10-26 18:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by steinmancloud9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skinny jeans- work only for guys who can pull them off & have a nice butt sag- not usually..
2016-03-28 08:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good use of "friend"
2006-10-26 17:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Drew P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋