my best friend (a boy) i like his sister alot and shes older than me is that a problem and how do i get her to like me just a little bit
2006-10-26 17:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by J E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is older than me too me 11 her 13 kinda weird huh?
2006-10-26 17:15:07 · update #1
my friend , a boy, i like his sister alot and shes older than me im 11 her 13 my friend doesnt know i like her how can i stop worrying about my friend finding out (he'll think im weird and call me sick and wouldnt wanna hang out with me anymore) and have her know that i like her (im embarrassed to tell) i feel akward liking best friends sister (especially older sister)!!! HELP MEEE!!!
2006-10-26 17:20:08 · update #2
hmm...seems like you got yourself a dilemma lol. well dont worry about the age thing, you gotta be confident in yourself! i mean dont go strutting around like ur the hottest pimp in town or anything.
as to how to get her to like you just a little bit heres some things that might help:
Humor (girls love to laugh, just dont over do it and look like a bafoon)
LISTEN TO HER (this is the MOST important thing you can do, all others branch off this one central idea)
Accentuate the small things (make the little things she says to you really important)
ex. i noticed that my girlfriend liked to save the blue trix cereal to eat last, b/c she thought those were the best tasting ones. so i bought a box of trix and hand picked all the blue ones out and gave it to her in a bag of goodies and such.
Always leave on a good note.(remeber people often remeber the last thing that happened better than what first started a converastion, so make sure to leave her wanting more, on a good note! like during a joke or something)
Just overall be yourself, thats really the best thing you can do, if she doesnt like you, then fine her loss! a kool guy like you can find plenty other girls.
Good Luck!
2006-10-26 17:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by aceofhearts0004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not weird to like someone that is close to you (through your friend). However, it could be awkward if you were to date your friend's sister and were to break up with her later. Depending on the reasons for the split your friend may no longer respect you.
Seriously though, you should be asking your siblings or your parents about this stuff.
2006-10-27 01:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by steinmancloud9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guy friend was kinda in the same predicament. he liked his sisters friend who is 3 years older. all he did was ask her out and she said yes, however this ruined the relationship between brother/sister and also sister/friend. ok but time heals as its a year and half later now and they have started talking again. you have to suss out if its ok with your friend first cos it is his sister and maybe he will be protective? if it is ok, maybe he can put a good word in for you or set you two up!
2006-10-27 00:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it happens a lot. You never know, you may not have to make her like you. It happens a lot that brothers, like their sisters friends and that their sisters friends like the brother. It happens to often it is not even funny. I suggest you check it out with your sister before you purse anything. Just make sure she is cool with it, that is if you want to purse with it.
2006-10-27 00:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kinda normal to like a friend's sibling. If she is older then u,..... depending on the yrs between ur ages,...... it'll vary on a problem or not.
To have her like u,...... start to pay attention to what she says, talking to u or not, and ask ur friend, casually.
2006-10-27 00:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nutella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a problem, it is a natural thing to happen. As far as getting her to like you, always be yourself. She will either like you or not, that my young friend is called life. Good Luck!!
2006-10-27 00:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends. I your friend doesn't mind then go for it but if you know your friend could get upset then don't first try to ask him before you try to get her to like you. If so then just be you good behaving self. Good Luck!
2006-10-27 00:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird at all its very commen i had the same problem but im a girl and i liked my brothers friend
2006-10-27 00:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its no big deal to have a thing for your friends sister...don't know how to make her interested though...just be yourself & see what she might think...good luck
2006-10-27 00:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by yahooligan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋