ok i'm 14 years old and i'm very mature for my age even though i have a lil wild side to me.... my family doesnt trust me and i really hate it cuz i'm the only on in the family that actually does stuff to help my family i clean, cook, laundry and basically everything.....yet when i want to go to school early i cant and if i do my dad watches me i hate it i hate it i told them about it and they dont care wat should i do please please help me
2006-10-26 16:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good deal. I am very proud of you and so are your parents . I bet they tell you they do trust you Huh? The very same thing I told my daughters that are now 26,25, and 17. All were just like you I couldn't ask for better girls. I trusted them I just didn't trust everyone else!They to have daughters and are going through what they did. wait till they to want to go here and go there . Its scary babe It really is There is so much mean people and stuff going on . Its just easier to say No.and be safe . O.K ?
2006-10-26 16:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 14 and even if you're mature for your age, your attitude in your question shows immaturity. Even you admit you have a bit of a wild side. Until that's under control and you've learned to handle situations like an adult, don't expect your family to let up on you. Sure, you may be responsible, but you're young and they are looking out for your best interests. Even though it bugs you remember they treat you this way because they love and care for you and be thankful for that.
2006-10-26 23:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Curious George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there! don't take it too hard they surely cares so much that's why. your parents are aware of what is commonly the trend of youth today and they want to make sure you won't be misled, do calm down and think hard, what would be their other reason for being strict if not to protect you. i assure you they love you that much to give you such attention, never consider rebelling against them If you think you're bieng choked, talk it out to them in a nice way, tell them how you feel and prove to them they can trust you. If you show them you are freaking they will be more strict. The best is an open communication. To tell you, i envy you, you got such great parents!
2006-10-26 23:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by angel blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie I hate to say this but maybe you gave them a reason to mistrust you. Just because you help around the house and you are only 14 does not mean you are an adult by any means. Just help your parents and from helping them..you will grow up to be a responsible adult when it is time to be on your own. All parents protect there children for a reason. Good luck to you...
2006-10-27 00:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by ariermagee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound really protective, I mean you are 14 years old, a young beautiful lady.
They are watchful because they love you, don't retaliate and become a rebel.
Sit them down and explain that you are a good daughter, you need some room, your a teenager.
Tell you parents to let you live a little.
2006-10-26 23:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect that he's working to protect you. Your the only person I can think of who wants to go to school early.
2006-10-26 23:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just trying to protect you; they don't want you to end up pregnant or on drugs or something. Just take it as a sign that they really care for you. You are lucky, and some people wish that they had parents that cared as much as yours do! In time, you will learn to appreciate their concern!
2006-10-26 23:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by DumBlonD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should talk to them...and tell them why you want to go to school early becuz they might think that ou wanna go to skool early for something bad ...so if you are then i think ur parents are telling you wats right for you...have you ever gotten into trouble before that made your parents not trust you..becuz if you have then maybe thats why they dont trust you..but if you havent then i think its just that you need to talk to them a lill more!!!!
2006-10-26 23:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by AbErCRoMbIe_FreAk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they are just trying to protect you. Start by assuring them that they have done a great job raising you and that they can trust you.
2006-10-26 23:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see dont think that they dont trust u. they are possesive about you. they dont want u to land in wrong hand. please keep faith in them. u are there child so its natural for them to care for u. at this age u need freedom but its very easy for u to land in wrong hands.
2006-10-27 00:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋