i'm going to my boyfriends this weekend and i am going to get my first french kiss and i'm so nervous. i want to but i'm just scared. please tell me everything u know about it please. and when u are in there mouth i know i heard people say to massage the other persons tounge but how do u do that and do u move your tounge in circles or something. iam clueless about everything PLEASE help please.
i know people say it comes naturally but can u kinda explain it so i won't be as nervous. like when u are in there mouth u massage there tounge but do u go in circles or somethign...and what are some tips
2006-10-26 16:05:24 · 10 answers · asked by girlie 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Hee....I think for my first french kiss, I would be worrying about how to keep it clean. My first kiss got really wet and slobbery, and I had to actually wipe my face dry. Make sure to take the time and swallow your spit so there isn't slobber all over.
Just push your tongue up against his, if his tongue retreats, then you allow your tongue to go into his mouth. Take turns. Take it slow...don't dart your tongue in and out. Just relax and do it slowly, and swallow. It takes some practice. But you will get it.
2006-10-26 16:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by CloudRider9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person, but generally just sort of suck gently as you kiss, and use your tongue in whatever ways he responds positively.
Also, start out kissing slow and get gradually more deep- don't think about being nervous, just think about the kiss and feeling good, etc.
I was really nervous my first time too- just go with your instincts (I know this sounds hokey/dumb- but it works) and don't clash teeth.
Also, don't be afraid to swallow a little saliva, because if you don't it can get everywhere and it's better to keep if it doesn't.
As a tip: close your eyes- it's a lot nicer that way.
2006-10-26 16:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by nerdy_pearlita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slow. Start with normal kissing and follow his lead, cuz if he's experienced he'll already know what he likes. Just open your mouth slowly and gently and let him slip his tounge into your mouth and see what he does. It's ok to stop and start over, and sometimes if you're both inexperienced its ok to stop and breathe, or giggle a little bit. Its supposed to be fun and feel good. Nervousness is just another form of excitement! So really you're excited, cuz its a positive thing. Good luck!
2006-10-26 16:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by past_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u scared? your boyfriend will teach u. and u will learn it naturally.yes u have to move ur tounge in circular motion. massage you will get from your boyfriend.if i expailn more i will get hot.
2006-10-26 16:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax is a good answer.just do the best you can and if that isn't good enough who cares.its all in attitude anyway.
2006-10-26 16:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Stretch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move your tongue slowly just like a windshield wiper.... but it's not all tongue, you also got to move your lips in different directions... practice baby :)
2006-10-26 16:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by HK gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS KIND OF A STRANGE QUESTION.... JUST FOLLOW WHAT HE DOES, JUST DONT BANG YOUR TEETH AGAINST HIS CAUSE THATS NOT VERY SEXY AT ALL. BUT THEY ARE RIGHT, IT JUST COMES NATURALLY, DONT FORCE ANYTHING.
2006-10-26 16:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by FUNNY SHIT RIGHT THERE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come naturaly.
2006-10-26 16:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT B NERVUS!
2006-10-26 16:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by McKenzie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... RELAX...........
2006-10-26 16:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋