I would NEVER think about acting on any of these dreams, but it freaks me out that I have dreamt about him twice now...and yes, they are sort of sexual dreams. Does this make me a pervert?? Should I talk to someone about this???
2006-10-26 16:00:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your conscience seems to be in the right place, you said,
"I would NEVER think about acting on any of these dreams".
Okay, so you are able to show some restraint in that area.
People often have dreams that they can't control, the subconscious does weird things when we are sleeping. The conscious mind is at rest so there is nothing to control the subconscious. It rambles and does weird things that we often cannot explain and those dreams do not necessarily have any connection to what we would intentionally do during the waking hours. But beware, I have had people tell me that when they were drunk they acted on dreams they had. Alcohol supresses the conscious mind so the subconscious can sometimes lead us to do things out of character for us.
DO NOT let yourself be around this BOY if you have been drinking. Sex with a minor is a felony and you don' t want that messing up your life.
Admit to yourself if he is attractive or he is appealing because he is a NICE KID. That will help. If you have a fellow more your own age spend more time with him and see the boy as what he is........a boy....
2006-10-26 16:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Harley Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shah....don't worry about it...dreams are just that....dreams....unless they are prophetic...and yours probably aren't in this case. Often times, such dreams touch in things symbologically that our conscious mind sin't even aware of. does this person remind you in some wayof someone you knew when YOU were in that age group, sonmeon that you were attracted to then? If so then this is nothing more than substituting his image for the image of the person you knew so long ago. Such dreams don't mean that there is anything wrong with you...in fact they are quite normal. It would be odd to not have such dreams. Far too many people are worried about the contents of dreams that appear to be socially taboo. Mostly this is because the link between the sub-conscious and conscious minds are little understood by the average person. Dreams are influenced by many things...sometimes by things we don't evn realize. I have known people that have had far more distrubing dreasm than that after hearing stories of things like rape, murder, child abuse...they are only the subconscious mind trying to filter through all the stimuli that one is bombarded with during the day. Add to that the almost obsessive focus in society on youth and youthful appearances and it sin't any wonder that such dreams occur. Don't worry about it...take them for what they are...little pictures in the head concocted by the part of the mind that is beyond any ability control and knowing that being the case, that such dreams are best not considered as they will, as all dreams do, fade rather quickly unles you dwell on them. I will say this, however, most people would not understand the nature of these sorts of dreams and would condemn you for something that is beyond your control, so I would keep it quiet and eventually it will be forgotten.
2006-10-26 17:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by kveldulfgondlir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should read alot into this dream at all. Everyone has weird, non-rational dreams and it's just your subconsious playing in with you while you're asleep.
No one plans on having the dreams they have, and sometimes its a nice little departure from our real life in the daytime. 16 or not, your dream is just that, a fantasy dream. Just don't act on it at work though, lol!
2006-10-26 16:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are simply goals. I would not fear approximately it. We are not able to manage our goals. I too have had icky goals approximately boys more youthful than me. I could NEVER truthfully do whatever like that and I don't uncover them sexually lovely in any respect. I would not don't forget you a pervert. As lengthy as you maintain the ones goals to your self. I felt particularly soiled after my two goals I had... however, so long as you realize its fallacious and don't have any goal of ever performing out those goals, I suppose you're k.
2016-09-01 03:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams aren't always what they appear to be. The is probably a deeper meaning than just about sex. You may project a certain emotion on to this guy or he may make you think of yourself in a certain way. The dream is about you and not really about just wanting sex. If that was the case i would only have sex dreams about gessele bundchen.
2006-10-26 17:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by hal j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not WRONG TO HAVE DREAMS about some 16 year old boy...AS LONG AS YOU DON'T ACT UPON IT....no, you do not need to waste your money on a psychologist....But watch some psychologist see this question and then say.."come see me right now"....for 250.00 an hour...you know!!!
2006-10-26 16:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It just means that you're attracted to him physically. You may also have a desire to want to do him, but as you said, you would never act upon it. Just dream and enjoy! (Can't get arrested for dreaming)
2006-10-26 16:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a perver because your can't control what you dream about. Now, if you acted on them it would.
2006-10-26 16:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Xander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-27 02:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-26 16:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋