Does he like me?

Question

So Ive been goin through this curious phase for like years.. I think Im in denial cause Ik for a fact that Im equally attracted to both sexes.. I just dont wanna admit it yet. Ive told my close friends about it and they dont care.. They still love me.. But lately this one guy in my class, we've got really close. I find myself waiting on him so we can walk together but when we do walk together, its silence until one of us speaks. And we stare at eachother in class all the time and then we just smile at eachother. We tell eachother secrets.. but he talks about girls all the time tho... Does this mean, thats hes curious like me, or hes just another horny kid.. lol

Answer 1

well i really dont know the situation soo i cant give u complete advice but what i can say is that just because he talks about girls all the time or what have you dosent mean he isnt intrested in u

Answer 2

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Hi Mr. Smooth,
It sounds as though you are quite young... So please try to weigh everyone's opinions before jumping into a mistake.
When I was in high school, and had similar experiences as you've described... I would find some activity that we could share. I was in explorers (scouts) so that I could go on campouts with those special friends. You find out a few more things when you share a tent with someone.
Maybe you both are interested in some sport. A lot of fantasies are dedicated to the locker room.
Maybe you could rent a (non-porno) movie, that has a gay theme,like "Trick" or "A Beautiful Thing" and check out his reaction to it. Of course, this will depend on how far he lives from you, and whether he is able to get there, and you probably don't want to watch this with your parents or younger siblings around...

Answer 4

He's just a horny little straight guy who considers you a good friend :(

Answer 5

About that "curious fase" you are in: you are not in denial. and you are not bi either. homosexuality is more of a physiological thing. many people think they are attracted to the same sex when they really are not. they think that they are in "denial" but they are not. its all in the mind.