i am a gay woman of middle age and i have a huge crush on my female doctor.what do i do .i have thought about changing doctors but she is a good doctor .
2006-10-26 15:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by womanluv5 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Keep the doctor, but also keep the crush under wraps, even if she wanted to it would be hard for her to get involved with a patient.
just go home after your check up and think about her, and let your fingers do the walking, and enjoy your fantasy.
2006-10-26 16:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip or find a new doctor.
She can never have anything to do with her patients. She would likely be barred from practicing medicine if your local medical board discovered she was having a relationship with a patient.
It's a little less tricky for former patients, but still not a good idea.
If she's straight, it doesn't matter what you do. She probably won't change.
If she's straight, you have a decision to make: can you handle your crush or not? If so, keep her as a doctor. If not, for your sanity, move on.
2006-10-26 22:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ignoramus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would do a little investigation. Try and find out if she is gay - ask around? If she is then it is time to leave the practise. She will not be able to have a relationship with a patient anyway. I f she is not then it is a different matter if you can control the crush sit back and enjoy it. If not well again it is time to move on...you will only end up hurting yourself in the long run
2006-10-27 03:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jenni R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, determine if she's gay or not. If she is, then switch doctors and ask her out. You gotta switch to maintain a healthy and professional relationship between the two of you. If she's not gay, don't bother switching doctors. At least you'd still get to see her. Who knows, she might switch teams if she discovers that she's into you. People switch teams all the time. \m/
2006-10-26 23:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask questions: is she gay, is she single. If she can answer yes to both then go for it. Only change doctors if you really feel you need to. Good luck
2006-10-26 22:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by dnicolejohnson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plz, women are called lesbian not gay. Gay are called to men. Thus, you are lesbian. For changing doctor, you have to simply have the negotiation, say sorry for your deal. Nobody will be small saying sorry. Life itself is compermise.
thank you for the question.
2006-10-27 01:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by digendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep her as your Doctor maybe not get involved in any other way besides professionaly and keep your crush thats hot.
2006-10-26 22:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your Doc. if you got involved with her(weather she is gay or not) her career is finished as docs are not allowed to date patients
2006-10-26 23:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by Croeso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your doctor gay also? If not that's got to be weird.
2006-10-26 22:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Chudogg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she gay? If so, ask her out. If you don't know, ask. You are a grown up, don't waste time wondering, time is too precious for that.
2006-10-26 23:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋