I'm in a class where there is a group of people who talk to eachother all the time and I'm just sitting there doing nothing they know I'm there because they say things to me and I know their not blind so they can see I'm there they like me it's just how do I get a conversation going or start one?
2006-10-26 15:30:50 · 7 answers · asked by live your life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am not sure how old you are? I would just appear to be easy-going, smart, take care of yourself, and happy to be yourself, and naturally the more they do say things to you, the more they will talk and the more you will talk. Don't try to rush things you will come off as needy and clingy and its annoying. It scares people off. Just try to appear strong in yourself and happy w/yourself/and life. Its magnetic.
2006-10-26 15:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already do not like these kids. I think something is wrong with them, not you! Do you really want their friendship or do you want to be respected by them? Everyone needs friends, but I think you need more respectful friends who value you.
Anyway, I try to be really funny to strangers and get them laughing. Some would say that was a protective mechanism though! Hope it helps.
2006-10-26 22:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by bluasakura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more friendly and outgoing towards others. Smile more often, join a club or a group. Be a bit forward if you have to be. Ask them questions . Find a hobby.
2006-10-26 22:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have friends, you must be friendly enough to talk with them and associate with them. Perhaps you might be giving them an impression that you're aloof because you're not talking to them, Words like hi, how are you will be a wonderful ice breaker. Ask questions that sounds interesting to them. Greet them whenever you see them and they might think you're cool. good luck.
2006-10-26 22:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someones not in a conversation, try to start one :)
2006-10-26 22:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Love. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be yourself ! maybe you can talk to somebody you already know ? Or just say HI and go from there
2006-10-26 22:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by asking them questions about themselves, not about you. people love to talk about themselves. try it and do it with a smile
2006-10-26 22:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋