I have these features: age 16, weight 118, height 5'8, eyes blue, hair dark brown, white skin, noticable 6 pack without flexing, my muscles do show,
hobbies are, i wrestle for my school, i like to read, play guitar, go on computer, and lift at the gym
I am shy and sorta depressed, i wana be able to tell a girl my fealings because i am sensitive but i am shy about my fealings and thoughts, i dont want the girl to look at me wierd when i tell her my fealings, my emotions are strong, BUT how do i make a good conversation with a girl and how do i show her that i am honest and a romantic guy thats not all about sex but wanting a girl that can understand my thoughts and fealings, i need to be able to show her but how do i talk to her?
2006-10-26 15:05:40 · 8 answers · asked by SoAlone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, you just have to talk to her. Try being her friend. Treat her with respect. Open doors for her. Offer to help with homework. Be around her as much as you can without laying a hand on her, that will show her you are respectful of her. Send her flowers, even 1 rose stuck in her locker. Write her a poem, if you're not good at it then find a romantic poem on the net, but of course don't take credit for it. Be a secret admirer for a while slipping her notes, poems & flowers & then have her meet you somewhere to find out who you are. Good luck! A secret admirer is a big deal to a girl.
2006-10-26 15:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, you must be careful who you speak your mind clearly to, all girls are not all sweet and lovable, some can be very malignant maybe due to past relationships. If you want to begin to talk with a girl you are attracted to, make sure you are not too forward. start a simple conversation. If you both share the same school etc.. and come across each other often, start a simple conversation. just a couple of words. Show to her your not afraid to be yourself. If your with someone however don't open yourself to them completely until you are sure how they really are, until you completely feel confortable and know about the person. You wouldn't want to share thoughts with someone that could care less it just would not be fair for you. Get to know them first before expressing anything. Also make sure its someone you can trust and someone you can definitely count on for advice and support not only as a girlfriendfriend but as a friend. You seem like a pretty open-minded guy, you will be okay just be careful who you chose to be open minded with; we wouldn't want you to get hurt. study the person first after you indulge into some open heart conversations. Don't plan anything in life, it will always come to you as your patient. Many often see relationships as a study guide, its not, it comes as it comes and as it is, you can't plan it. You can try and fix it, but there is no perfect way to start or end a realtionship. Its mystique comes as it is, don't plan; let it happen and be yourself, just be aware and carefull with whom you decide to share anything with so you won't get hurt.
J.R
2006-10-26 15:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jess R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like a rare kinda kid, which is a good thing. just say hi to her..ask how shes doing, get to kno her a little in passing, then ask her out....find out some of her interests and hobbies to so maybe u hav more to talk about...like what does she do at the school? talk to her about that...but just be nice and charming in ur hello and all that good stuff...but first, work a little on building ur confidence in urself...just relax and be u.....
2006-10-26 15:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by manalo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ur the kind of guy that is really hard to find these days and if she cant see how kind and true u really are then thats her lose.But you might want to start a normal conversation to her before you tell her how you truely feel.
(ur like the perfect guy!)
2006-10-26 15:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Blond&Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just jump in and unload on some poor unsuspecting girl. You have to get to know a girl first. develop a relationship. Baring your soul should be the last thing you do.
2006-10-26 15:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by jipsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol reminds me of akon lonely cept that song is like history just tell it to her straight and start steppin out cuz it will help a lot and i mean from the sound of it i think a lottttttttt of grls will dig u but u just gtta get our your shell dude i mean its not gonna b the end of the wrld dont think about the bad things
2006-10-26 15:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by ..::pimpin azn grl::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a song and let her find it.. maybe she will ask questions
2006-10-26 15:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋