me and my friend have known each other since the fifth grade. We have always been able to talk about anything, but know i think i love him. He just broke up with his stupid girlfriend who just happens to hate me.I dont know if i should ask him out or if I shouldn't
Please someone HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 15:05:12 · 12 answers · asked by Kay Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why does she hate you? Could it be because she senses that he has feelings for you more than friendship? That would be my guess. I say go for it. But, be careful, you don't want to ruin the great relationship that the two of you already have. Maybe feel him out a bit. Suggest that the two of you do something out of the ordinary like catch a flick in the middle of the afternoon. Or better yet, watch a DVD in your bedroom. See how he reacts. Then, do what seems natural from there. Good luck!
2006-10-26 15:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow tricky!! I know so many people in the same situation, and every one is different. You do not want to lose your friendship with this guy, so if you think that you could try dating for a while without a messy breakup, then maby you should try. CAUTION: this is a very sensitive situation and you need to think about how he feels about you as well. I hope every thing works out for the best!!
2006-10-26 22:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sleepy Head! ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I would say Go for it LOL, love after a long friendship is always the best one, there is more confidence and you two know each other so good
2006-10-26 22:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Mass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tough b/c you don't want to jeopardize what you have and possibly make things awkward w/ a friend. if you are truly best friends and you talk about anything, you should be able to bring it up. bring it up in a non-threatening way and not putting pressure on him at all to make a decision. just be honest w/ how you are beginning to feel. be honest about the transition of your feelings, and see what he thinks about it. i had the same situation w/ my best friend, i fell in love w/ her, fortunately she was cool and it didn't jeopardize anything. but i hope it woks wll
2006-10-26 22:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Yee Haw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you do love him and he does'nt love you back, your friendship can be ruined. But if he feels the same way, both of you should be happy. Give him some time to go through the loss of his ex-girlfriend and then take it slowly.
2006-10-26 22:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by thfgbv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great relationships start as Best Friends.
2006-10-26 22:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it .. coz if u guys date and things went wrong u wont be able to get back the friendship u had.....besides .. from what i read.. i understand that u care 4 him like a brother... soo?
2006-10-26 22:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u like him.then he'll tell u what he thinks about u in his opinion.if that u are just best friends.or if he wants to be more.
i wish u th ebest.
2006-10-26 22:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jermaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should evaluate if what you feel is strong enough to loose your best friend, cause if it doesn't work your friendship will be in jeopardy
2006-10-26 22:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT... BEFORE IT'S TO LATE
2006-10-26 22:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by next.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋