Adoption question...how do you feel ?

Question

I think children who are adopted because they were abused is great. I think wealthy people who adopt children who 's family is simply poor are taking advantage of parents who love their kids.
Why don't they help provide a better situation for the whole family so that the child can remain with their loving parents. It's like social services paying for fostercare when maybe that money is all the biological family needs to get by each month. I don't get it.

Answer 1

the decision to adopt is a difficult onr for the birth family but its their decion to make.Noone should have the right to question why they do it.

Answer 2

do i hear some slight relevance to a certain popster? :p
if adoption is just for the sake of popularity, im totally against it.

what you said is true.. why not just feed the entire family uh? but sometimes, these families have just too many mouths to feed, so that suggestion is simply not viable. fostercare.. money come from taxpayers in the SAME country.. you CANT get someone who's willing to adopt families of 10 or 20 (what's more in a foreign country) yeah?

bear in mind too.. that these families who allowed their kids to be adopted are not unwilling partners in the "negotiations". did anyone forcefully take the child? No. put yourself in the shoes of these poor families. giving up one child will give enough money to feed 9 others. that's like striking lottery for them to get out of the hellhole they're in.

the ideal situation is to allow children and parents to be toegether of course... but what is life? it's time you know that life is not simple. life is not fair. and to survive, you just gotta take the most out of what you have.

and that's what these poverty-stricken families do.

Answer 3

Why should rich people that potentially work hard for their money pay for a bunch of poor people that may be poor because of drugs.