Every time I tell my friend a secret she tells somebody that I KNOW will tell the world. Now I have a BIG problem I need to tell her, because she is the only person who will understand me, but I also don't want the world to know my problem. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?
2006-10-26 15:01:09 · 10 answers · asked by chrismt_2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you could find some one else to trust, maybe some here would like to hear you out (I Know I Would) or tell her straight that you hate that she tells others
2006-10-26 15:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her if you know she is going to blab! There is nothing worse than a friend who won't keep their mouth shut when it needs to be. If you realy need to tell some one, find someone you know won't tell a soul. Older people are the best at this. Or if you don't feel comfortable doing that, you could keep a journal. It helps to get things off your mind and no one will know, just make sure that it is locked in a safe hidden place!! LOL
2006-10-26 15:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sleepy Head! ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should firmly tell her that its confidential, and that if she really is your friend she won't go around telling others. Have you ever though about the fact that she might not be the best friend to tell your secrets to? Obviously a true friend never tells your secrets, you need to find someone else to confide in or keep it to yourself if your sure she'll go tell someone.
2006-10-26 15:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she's going to blab, you can't trust her with anything that you don't want told. Find someone else who understands you, and who can keep a secret.
2006-10-26 15:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just write down the problem and try to think of possibilities to solve it instead of telling your friend. It happens to me.
2006-10-26 15:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree if you have something you dont want told then dont tell her anyting anymore.Just if you think its something worth telling her then tell her but I would talk to someone else.
2006-10-26 15:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by Haley G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD THE SAME TROUBLES.... I ENDED UP NOT TALKING TO HER FOR A WHILE, THEN WE HAD A TALK AND I TOLD HER EXACTLY HOW I FELT AND WHY. THAT HAS BEEN ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO, NOW THINGS ARE BETTER.
JUST AN IDEA.... SORRY TO HEAR YOUR ISSUES... GOOD LUCK
2006-10-26 15:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by next.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many times are you going to believe her when you already know what she's going to do? don't be foolish again. if you want to tell her, deal with the consequences. you don't have to tell her, you know.
2006-10-26 15:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new friend.... Ill be your friend you can tell me
2006-10-26 15:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new to talk to, someone you can trust.
2006-10-26 15:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by girl. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋