lets say you find the love of your life, your soulmate... the man that makes you happy, treats you good... but he just doesnt cut in the sack, its not big enough and he doesnt last long in bed, what would you do, dump him?? cheat on him what would you do ladies??
2006-10-26 14:59:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Really??? I'll have to say...hes' gotta be good. That sounds horrible I know, but really when you think about it. Sex is THE most intimate experience that you and your spouse can have together. The experience of sex is just so amazing. He fits so well inside you and you move so well together you can almost become one person (for a good 30 minutes, hopefully longer!) When I have sex with my husband it feels like my heart is literally melting on his warm chest.We have a GREAT realtionship both in and out of bed! Its basically the package deal for me. In my realtionship here and now. So, I would really miss and need that connection. We are one of the VERY, VERY few that can use sex the way we do. If I was dating someone and we didn't move well together than I wouldn't stay with him. I hate when people say that sex isn't a big part of marriage. IT IS. How can it not be? Masturbating just isn't the same people...you now that! You have to be able to connect spiritually...what better way!?!? (I'm sure there are some really good ways..but this one takes the cake don't you think!?) NOW, if my man had a small staff...well, that would kind of be a different story. I've been with both LARGE and SMALL and there are good things and there are bad things about each size...we could work around that one. But if he doesn't know how to move and there is no chance he will improve...thats just a sign that says...you ain't meant to be!
2006-10-26 15:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's my soulmate, the love of my life, the man that makes me happy and treats me good, then why would I dump him?!? That would be so shallow. Sex is pretty important, but if he's just not cutting it, then there are things that can be done to improve or enhance that aspect of the relationship. - I would show him how I like it and teach him how to do it well. I have lots of patience and I think it would end up working well. But how easy is it to find someone who truly makes you happy? And how often does a person truly find their soulmate?
2006-10-26 15:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by giggitygiggitygiggitygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man has secured the woman's heart then.. physical handicaps, lack of skills, has nothing on unconditional love. There are plenty folks in this world that knows the value of ones heart. I would rather have a man to stand with me in any storm in life, where we can share the memories of a life time, even if I lost my leg he is still by my side. The Man's heart and soul. I will take any day !! Plz sex lol some never get it right big or small. There are other things that can take the place of that issue.. Its about taking the time out to learn how to explore other options together.
2006-10-26 15:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experience with a partner who is a "minute man". To begin with I'd suggest trying new positions. Doing inital research could end the problem before it begins; if it is something that can be curbed with pills. If it can't its a mental thing, and that can be frustrating for both partners. I can only say what I would do; that is try to work it out maybe suggest an open relationship to satisfy needs. Breaking up should always be a last resort. So if cheating won't work, just let him down gently.
2006-10-26 15:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Charming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, wait, I know the answer to this one. I've been there. I fell deeply in love with a man who had a small penis. I was so confused what to do. Over time, he developed into an excellent lover and I swear he feels bigger now than before. I think its something about how excited a man gets. If he's REALLY excited, he gets huge.
Don't bail on him yet honey. Work with him a little and see what you can do. You never know what could happen tomorrow. A good man is HARD to find... hehehe
2006-10-26 15:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I am a virgin right now (I'm only 19) I do not find sex to be the most important thing in a relationship. I hopefully am only going to have sex with one man in my life....and because I love that man what may be considered not so good sex by other women will be the best sex to me.
2006-10-26 15:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i qould be with him.
Theres more to life than sex no matter what people say.
I dont need it to survive, i think in todays world things revolve around sexuality and its quite sad.
Just because a man is no good in bed doesnt mean he hasnt got other fantastic qualities to make up for it.
Just remember there are other ways to tantalise and please than intercourse.
2006-10-26 15:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by samchic86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh...well. if he's your solmate and your one true love-of-your-life then the fact that.."he just doesnt cut in the sack"..shouldn't matter. i'm surprised you're not doubting your love for him after even thinking about cheating on him. don't worry about it...if he is your soul mate then everything will fall into place
2006-10-26 15:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to a person - its not just about the sex. If I absolutely loved him and that was all the problem was, no problem, I'd just tell him exactly what I wanted, show him how to do it and everything would be fine. Its not about the size -really!
2006-10-26 15:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to love than sex and when it comes to sex we all can learn a thing or two. find out what really get you going and then show him men who love their mates will and want to please them, If this man really your soul mate then treat him as the most precious possession you because he is
2006-10-26 15:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋